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Surrogacy

Why is surrogacy still such a controversial subject? I have been doing my research on this topic. I talked to some people who are fertile and have no problem in having children. Most of their reviews were negative about this. They said it was too controversial and risky. I agree it is risky. But controversial, still? I don't think so. It is 2018 people. I guess they don't see it through the eyes of the people who cant have children naturally. They don't know what we go through. So many people even discourage it. If you are not a supporter, fine. But at least don't discourage it. It is benefitting so many people in this world. So many clinics have opened that are doing this for people on comparatively lower costs. I had my son through surrogacy too. I went to Ukraine for it. I really wanted to spread awareness about this topic. I'd really like to hear your views about this,

  1. Aviana8 months ago

    Hello, Melissa. How are you? This is a really informative post. I'm happy you took the time out to make it. Surrogacy is such a brilliant procedure. We should be thanking science for this! It makes me so happy that people are finally opting for it. It shouldn't be banned. It should be allowed worldwide. But, it should be regulated. I love how the laws are in Ukraine. It's really nice. The freedom is amazing. And, it means that the procedure is carried out in the best manner. I hope more and more people open up to it.

  2. Katy4588 months ago

    How’s it going?Thanks for sharing this information.Everyone must know about surrogacy and IVF.But must confirm about clinic before surrogacy.Because there is some scammer in the field of surrogacy.Adonis is one of them.
    My best wishes are with you . Live long.

  3. Diana Parker8 months ago

    Well, the persons who never experienced it. Who don't even have an idea that how much crucial it is. They never know about this. In my thinking. I never give a damn about such people review. How could they give a review and say such things about this? They don't even know the suffering that we have to face being infertile. It's so many devastating situations for us. We have to face them. It's us whose opinion may matter. The people never experienced it. They better keep their voices low in these matters. Surrogacy is a great process. I loved it. I am going to experience it because that is the only option left for me. I think it's best.

  4. Sarahshelly.agnis8 months ago

    Dear, you need to understand the reality. There are different kinds of people in every society. Religious groups and then there’s scientists and medical practitioners. Procedures like surrogacy are to help infertile couples conceive babies. The Gestational surrogacy where the eggs and sperm are not from the original parents. And are imported from various parts of the world to design a baby. That is where the differences come. It might not be considered ethically correct. That both the parents of the fertilized baby are not even married. This is not acceptable in a lot of countries. These are a few facts that can be changed. Otherwise, you can support surrogates and also opt as one if you find it correct. It's total up to your own choice. There are really good clinics those hire people for this purpose. They are attached to agencies who make profiles through the assessment of various aspects.

  5. rooha8 months ago

    Wow, such a wonderful post. Surrogacy is a blessing. It is helping people in need. Yes, you are very right about it. People should criticize this wonderful blessing. When people are having their children with a legal way then there is nothing wrong with it. So please stop doing that. Thanks for highlighting such sensitive issues. A good clinic in Europe is working hard to make this treatment successful

  6. mona12U8 months ago

    Hi dear, are you currently trying to conceive? Have you taken up any procedure yet. I am guessing that you are currently recovering from your surgery. It is too early to say that it will be difficult. You still have chances of get to g pregnant. It is always a chance by fate. If you are bound to recover only then you can try again. You will have to take extra care of your diet. Your health is your first priority. I have been to several clinics. only because I had little awareness I have faced bad experience with lotus clinic. They had pushed me to get Ivf treatment. Desperation led us into their trap. I failed two cycles. A year later it was a miracle that I conceived naturally. I guess I was taking care of my self more by now.

  7. Petja8 months ago

    I also have fertility issue. I even don't know what is the reason for my infertility. I went to a number of clinics regarding fertility. They don't even know the reason behind this.
    I am tired now of going to different clinics. I have been TTC from last 10 years. Now i have decided to go for surrogacy as a ultimate resort. I live in Bulgaria surrogacy is ban here. So i will have to move to another state to have a baby via surrogacy. I have heard there are many good clinics for surrogacy. I will surely now move for surrogacy. My husband is also with me. As we have been waiting too long for baby. He is super excited about our start. I hope everything goes well. I am also that finally we will have a baby. Someone has some experience about surrogacy??
    Do let me know if you have.

  8. Petja8 months ago

    I also have fertility issue. I even don't know what is the reason for my infertility. I went to a number of clinics regarding fertility. They don't even know the reason behind this.
    I am tired now of going to different clinics. I have been TTC from last 10 years. Now i have decided to go for surrogacy as a ultimate resort. I live in Bulgaria surrogacy is ban here. So i will have to move to another state to have a baby via surrogacy. I have heard there are many good clinics for surrogacy. I will surely now move for surrogacy. My husband is also with me. As we have been waiting too long for baby. He is super excited about our start. I hope everything goes well. I am also that finally we will have a baby. Someone has some experience about surrogacy??
    Do let me know if you have.

  9. Petja8 months ago

    I also have fertility issue. I even don't know what is the reason for my infertility. I went to a number of clinics regarding fertility. They don't even know the reason behind this.
    I am tired now of going to different clinics. I have been TTC from last 10 years. Now i have decided to go for surrogacy as a ultimate resort. I live in Bulgaria surrogacy is ban here. So i will have to move to another state to have a baby via surrogacy. I have heard there are many good clinics for surrogacy. I will surely now move for surrogacy. My husband is also with me. As we have been waiting too long for baby. He is super excited about our start. I hope everything goes well. I am also that finally we will have a baby. Someone has some experience about surrogacy??
    Do let me know if you have.

  10. kimberlyjames7 months ago

    Hello Melissa. I totally agree with you here. It shouldn't be so controversial, at least today. So many people found their happiness when they were finally able to have a baby of their own through this. I'm one of those people too. I'm glad you shared your story here. It was really inspiring. The place you went to for the procedure seems like a reliable one.

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