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Surrogacy

Why is surrogacy still such a controversial subject? I have been doing my research on this topic. I talked to some people who are fertile and have no problem in having children. Most of their reviews were negative about this. They said it was too controversial and risky. I agree it is risky. But controversial, still? I don't think so. It is 2018 people. I guess they don't see it through the eyes of the people who cant have children naturally. They don't know what we go through. So many people even discourage it. If you are not a supporter, fine. But at least don't discourage it. It is benefitting so many people in this world. So many clinics have opened that are doing this for people on comparatively lower costs. I had my son through surrogacy too. I went to Ukraine for it. I really wanted to spread awareness about this topic. I'd really like to hear your views about this,

  1. PageElvy4 months ago

    I disagree. I do not think that commercial surrogacy is a problem. Hell no. I think it allows women to earn money the way they want. It encourages them to help others. There are fewer women who would do something of this sort for 0 money. And I do not think it is right to use someone that way. I much more prefer to pay them myself.

  2. Pinder4 months ago

    I think it's great that you did this. Most women would have given in to the societies' norms. That's terrible because I think it's a fine procedure. It's helping and there's nothing wrong with it. You did a wonderful job. I'm really happy for you. Congrats to you! I hope this helps more women opt for it. Keep it up.

  3. PageElvy4 months ago

    Society has to change. it is time. we should all be accepting of each other's choices. And it is only fair to give infertile women their right to have kids back. nature took a lot from us. science has given us those lost opportunities back. and I do not understand why we do not celebrate it as much as other things of a much less significance.

  4. Juliet393 months ago

    Congratulations to you! I am glad that surrogacy worked out for you. It is indeed an amazing process. So many people have been able to fight through infertility due to the process. However, I believe the clinic matters a lot for the process. The more the clinic is professional the more are the chances of success. Mainly because of a lot of experience and expertise are required. There is a lot of legal work involved that can only be correctly done by an expereinced clinic. The clinic you have mentioned is indeed doing an amazing job. I have emailed them just today. Hoping for them to help us out. I have heard amazing reviews about them so my expectations are quite high. I have sent them a long email. Asking them about their services and programs. Do pray.

  5. JuneeM2 months ago

    This is an absolutely brilliant post. You've taken them all to the cleaners! Backed it up with facts, as well. What a great effort, honey. I agree with everything that you've said. You're right, people need to understand! It makes no sense to still be this confused in 2019! If someone wants to opt for surrogacy, let them! You're no one to judge them or frown upon that decision. It's a perfectly fine method. Thank you for talking about it! Keep up the good work. Hopefully, more and more people can adopt the same view. These posts will help in creating this idea. So, well done, honey!

  6. SummerAu2 weeks ago

    What a lovely post! I'm so glad you decided to talk about this. I don't understand why people are still judging each other for such things. It is really sad to see others interfering in matters which don't concern them. However, things can get better if people talk about these things. So, it's important to raise awareness about it! Keep up the good work, honey!

  7. Railee2 weeks ago

    You're right, there's nothing wrong with such a method. It is helping people at the end of the day. That's all that really matters. Commercial surrogacy is a problem, and it is banned. However, when women are willingly helping each other, then there's no problem. It's actually beautiful if you ask me! Restores your faith in humanity, to be honest.

  8. Evie12 weeks ago

    I'm so glad that you're talking about this. You're absolutely correct, honey. I'm glad that you are talking about it. People think of it as something controversial. Which it certainly isn't. It's helping people, and wherever it's regulated, it's great. Keep up the good work!

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