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Why is surrogacy still such a controversial subject? I have been doing my research on this topic. I talked to some people who are fertile and have no problem in having children. Most of their reviews were negative about this. They said it was too controversial and risky. I agree it is risky. But controversial, still? I don't think so. It is 2018 people. I guess they don't see it through the eyes of the people who cant have children naturally. They don't know what we go through. So many people even discourage it. If you are not a supporter, fine. But at least don't discourage it. It is benefitting so many people in this world. So many clinics have opened that are doing this for people on comparatively lower costs. I had my son through surrogacy too. I went to Ukraine for it. I really wanted to spread awareness about this topic. I'd really like to hear your views about this,

  1. emily2943 months ago

    "In my opinion, any couple who is infertile should not listen to the negative cooments of people.
    They must not bother about what people are saying about your infertility and the ways of having the baby. Rather they should go for it. Once they have their own baby in hands, people will surely forget to criticize about it. The best and only way to have your own baby in case of infertility is surrogacy. And Biotex clinic is that one of the best clinic, in which you will have access to all the facilities and information regarding surrogacy. They don't keep anything secret. Their rates are also affordable. One should also search about Biotex clinic by themselves as well. And once they are satisfied with it, they will also spread positive word of mouth about Biotex clinic like me. "

  2. ella2323 months ago

    Hi there! I've also been doing research on surrogacy lately and the major issue that i came to know of is that most of them who hesitate thats because their religion doesn't allow them to do so and also some people don't wanna rely on technology much and opt for natural process, but sometimes you have to understand other people's pain too i guess not much people are kind that way. Well my point of view about surrogacy is it's a totally normal phenomenon, children are blessing no matter that was a normally delievered child, or a test tube baby, adopted one or was born through surrogacy we should all be thankful for what we have!

  3. ella2323 months ago

    Hi there! I've also been doing research on surrogacy lately and the major issue that I came to know of is that most of them who hesitate that's because their religion doesn't allow them to do so and also some people don't wanna rely on technology much and opt for natural process, but sometimes you have to understand other people's pain too I guess not many people are kind that way. Well, my point of view about surrogacy is it's a totally normal phenomenon, children are blessing no matter what was a normally delivered child, or a test tube baby, adopted one or was born through surrogacy we should all be thankful for what we have!

  4. Lina Williams3 months ago

    Hi there! yes, I can understand that it is difficult for people to endure the truth of surrogacy. They most of the times becomes judgemental,
    but you dear need to do what you feel good for you and what makes you happy because at the end of the day it is about your life and your happiness.
    You are not responsible if you cannot give birth to a baby naturally, so I would go in favor of your decision about the method you chose and the place too,
    as I have been there and they have a great environment. So keep your head high, be strong and never let people decide what you want to do.

  5. Sloth553 months ago

    Hey there, I was reading your post and kudos to you girl, you have gathered the courage to say the truth. It breaks my heart too when people do not support these medical advancements and act selfishly. They do not know the pain of not having to call someone your own.This surrogacy advancement has solved all the miseries of couples who cannot get their own children themselves. This is still something very natural and provides you with the happiness you always dreamt of. Though people are scared of this. It is because there are less knowledge and more criticism. I am glad I had supportive people who told me about all the best things that could happen to me if I opted for this procedure. People should come forward and share their stories so that others get to know about the blessings this surrogacy procedure has given us. I myself have gone through this and today I am a mother of two beautiful girls, and all this because of surrogacy.

  6. LonieKot3 months ago

    Good luck with your TTC
    I'm sharing my journey of Surrogacy with you.
    I'm basically from Japan we are settled in Japan from past few years.We are happily married.I'm totally infertile now as i had hysterectomy cancer and as i result i am infertile now. But my husband was there with me every time. Than we searched about surrogacy and found it best solution for us.
    As Japan has banned surrogacy so we moved to Europe to find our dream come true.Than we moved to Ukraine as we heard there are many good clinics regarding surrogacy in Ukraine.In Ukraine we found BioTexCom and consulted them.They helped us to find a good surrogate mom.Now she is pregnant with our twin daughters.We are very excited about having two daughters.We are so thankful to the clinic.The surrogates mom are kind they let us have our dream come true.
    Share your stories too

  7. rebecca123 months ago

    Hey there Melissa! I hope you're doing fine. I agree with your every point. I too believe that living in 2018, surrogacy shouldn't be as controversial as it is. It is merely a blessing in disguise. It has been helping people throughout the world to have a baby. Modern methods have been developed to make our lives easier. But we ourselves are bashing them. You're very right that if someone doesn't support surrogacy, he shouldn't discourage people from doing so. Couples who wish to have a baby but couldn't conceive naturally, surrogacy is their only option. They really find surrogacy as a miracle for them. I love the concept and I wish everyone supports it. We should get together and spread positive vibes. People should be aware of these methods. Everyone deserves to be happy!

  8. Nina ahrichi3 months ago

    HEY there! Hope you are fine. Just needed to tell you that infertility is a cause of depression but you can overcome it by having a child through surrogacy. Although it is banned in some countries but in Europe it is not, so you can try that. They have an excellent environment and atmosphere. They have experienced people who can help you. Best of luck with your decision

  9. JuneHamilton3 months ago

    Hey there! How are you? Hope you are doing fine. You are very right. I am totally with you on this. This is something that should be discussed. Infertile couples deserve an equal chance at life. And I don't know why people have a problem with this. Everything in start is difficult. You think malaria was always treatable? Now you don't hear about it even. Why can't people take infertility as a disease. And surrogacy being one of the cures. I mean the surrogate is an adult who willingly does it. Wake up people! Please!

  10. Beverlyquin3 months ago

    Hey lovely lady.I am agreed with you.Actually, we all want to live with complete family.Life is incomplete and there is no happiness.I also had my baby through surrogacy.I highly appreciated and thankful for this clinic.Where I have to fulfill my dreams.May all of you have the great journey.Good luck.

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