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Why is surrogacy still such a controversial subject? I have been doing my research on this topic. I talked to some people who are fertile and have no problem in having children. Most of their reviews were negative about this. They said it was too controversial and risky. I agree it is risky. But controversial, still? I don't think so. It is 2018 people. I guess they don't see it through the eyes of the people who cant have children naturally. They don't know what we go through. So many people even discourage it. If you are not a supporter, fine. But at least don't discourage it. It is benefitting so many people in this world. So many clinics have opened that are doing this for people on comparatively lower costs. I had my son through surrogacy too. I went to Ukraine for it. I really wanted to spread awareness about this topic. I'd really like to hear your views about this,

  1. Olivia_19905 months ago

    Hey! I love how you chose such an argumentable topic for the discussion. I loved reading most of the comment. We must be welcoming to different views and opinions. But I want to share my story; why I don't find surrogacy as a helpful and selfless act which creates a beautiful bond between many human beings. I have had my uterus removed. After I got my baby through IUI, I suffered from cancerous polyps. I was devastated after my doctor told me they will have to remove my uterus. I could not think straight. I wanted to choose death than getting my uterus removed. My husband was really supportive of that time, he ensured that we would adopt a baby and complete our family. When I went through my hysterectomy, I just became hopeless. I did not know what I have left to do with my life now. Luckily, I met my cousin after many years and she shared her experience with surrogacy. Surrogacy was really new to me at that time. She told me about a clinic in Europe. After few visits, I used to be really curious to know more about surrogacy and eagerly wait for my next session. I have selected a surrogate mother now. Our process will begin soon. So I am really looking forward to having my second child.

  2. niya5 months ago

    You are right. Surrogacy is still a controversial topic and there is a lot of negativity surrounding this subject. Unfortunately, people don’t really know what surrogacy is or are not aware of it completely. Surrogacy is a beautiful process in my opinion . IVF is also a blessing. After being diagnosed with infertility and I went for IVF. First was a failure but now luckily I am pregnant again. I had to face a lot of negativity and harsh words. Unfortunately, people will always degrade what they don’t understand just to make themselves feels superior. Everyone deserves to be happy and to be a parent.

  3. EmilyBaker5 months ago

    Surrogacy is a difficult decision. There are a lot of risks involved. But those risks you have to take to move forward. There are many negative views about it. Some people say that it is not natural. Babies being born by someone else for a couple is unnatural. But those people forget that for some people, surrogacy is the only way. They go through long hard times of infertility. They go through all the options available. They spend so much time and money on it. In the end, they have no hope. Surrogacy provides the only hope. Surrogacy gives them the happiness they desire so much. Even if the success rate is not 100%. I hope everyone understands that.

  4. alice995 months ago

    Hello there. I don't understand how people can say stuff like that. Even there are some countries that don't allow surrogacy and ban it. I don't get why. The only thing it has done is help people and made them happy. It has completed so many families. Take care.

  5. karsynne4 months ago

    Hi There. Hope you are doing fine. I read your post. Surrogacy is really a blessing for infertile couples. It is really a good option for couples who can't conceive. I think you should go for it. It will be friutful for you. Best of luck.

  6. Jade24 months ago

    Hello, Melissa. I hope you're alright. You're right, it's so unfair. Surrogacy does NOT deserve this. It's a great process. It's so helpful and it helps so many people. I think it's also really important to undergo surrogacy with the right clinic. You can't hope to have success with clinics that aren't experienced. A rare few clinics stand at the top. Ahead of everyone is one in Ukraine. They are an authority on assisted conception. My advice to everyone hoping to go for surrogacy is to choose that clinic. They are the best in the business. You won't regret your decision. I'm currently undergoing my process, and I couldn't be happier!

  7. ruby1234 months ago

    Hello dear! please accept my deepest condolences. Infertility no doubt is hard to tackle. This disease is very common now a days. But science is so advance that there are other option to become parents. I am happy for you that you don't lose hope. You are searching for other option. Surrogacy is the best option to become a mother. But be aware of choosing the clinic. There are many clinics which cash the helplessness of patients. I had the very bad experience of lotus clinic. They are just wasting the time and money of couples. The Biotexcom clinic is doing best in this regard. Choose the clinic wisely. Wishing you good luck.

  8. alexa shelly4 months ago

    Yes, those people who are fertile say that surrogacy is risky and also discourage us. But what about those who are infertile? They need surrogacy. They can not have children. Surrogacy gives you the better results. I have seen many women who got their babies through surrogacy. But, be careful, there is a clinic in Europe which is looting everyone. Their staff is not friendly and cooperative. Make sure that you never visit that clinic. The clinic name is lotus.

  9. ella_jax4 months ago

    Hello Dear! I hope you are doing great. You have discussed a very important thing above. People should be aware of this. Infertility is a word a woman never want to hear for herself in her life. It is an abuse for a woman. It destroys a woman from inside. The actual thing is that only those can understand this who have gone through it. No doubt surrogacy is not less than a blessing for an infertile woman. It gives a new reason to an infertile woman to survive in this world. The life is the name of ups and downs. It is not a bed of roses. Let me tell you my story. I got married two years ago. I get pregnant after six months. I was really happy. Unfortunately, I faced a miscarriage. The doctors declared me infertile. I was really depressed. I did not lose hope. I decided to go for surrogacy. I searched on the internet for good clinics. I got to know about a clinic in Europe. I went there. I got very good treatment. Its staff was so humble. Their medical facilities were also at a satisfactory level. I took my surrogacy treatment there. I have my own baby now. Surrogacy proved very beneficial to me. I would suggest all infertile woman go to this clinic.

  10. JenniferGould4 months ago

    Hello Melissa! I would like to add my word on this. I am a big supporter of surrogacy. But I was not so always. I used to hate people who used unnatural ways to have babies. I also hated people who would go to plastic surgeon. Because I thought that even if we had disability, it was nature's order. But then I grew up. I became infertile. I had to resort to infertility aids. Had to go for IUI and IVF and then finally for surrogacy. I understood the process for the first time. I came to know how the sufferer feels. I came to know how the on looker Judges. I was sad and desparate. Then I went to Ukraine. I now have a baby. I'm sorry for myself. I wish I had not been so stupid.

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