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Dad wants to use daughter for proposal with new gf??

Ok so the title pretty much says my situation. My daughters father and I are co-parenting, however he just recently told me he is going to propose to his gf. He told me heis going to put a onsie on my daughter that asks the question and is going to have the gf see it. (My daughter is 3 months old). I let him know that was weird to use our child for him and his gf but am I overreacting?? Is it normal or is it unusual??

  1. CaliCarla20175 months ago

    Unusual. Your daughter is not a prop.

  2. Christa2 months ago

    I think it sounds cute but something about it strikes me as inappropriate.

  3. Pookie22 months ago

    I think that is romantic and sweet

  4. callisy2 months ago

    Oh mine, that's awesome. I think you are overreacting. If the child is just 3 months that is going to be romantic. I even wish my husband could propose like that. It looks so cute. I am trying to imagine a 3 months old kid with an onesie with the magic question. The imaginations already look perfect for me. If you are comfortable you could just allow him to. I do not see anything bad with tat. Unless you two have unsolved issues. Unless otherwise let them enjoy themselves. It is not like they will be hurting the child. She is just acting a way in between. I have also seen weddings where a baby is the one bringing the ring in the alter. It looks so awesome to me. I have always pictured kids to be those angelic beings. So when they partake such characters it looks so heavenly to me. If I could be in your shoe I could let them be. I think you should do the same too.

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