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I am worried

"After marriage,
My husband is changed now. He was a very loving person before our marriage. He was a different person then. I felt different now. Sometimes some problems occur but we solve them but I felt the change in his attitude now. Maybe I am wrong. Maybe it's just what I am thinking. Maybe it's not difficult at all. I am so much worried. Is there anyone who is facing same problem with her husband. What are these things?? why this happens??? What are possibilities? Help me, please. I am worried.
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  1. [ deleted account ]9 months ago

    Some people feel different after marriage, like it really changes the dynamic between two people.

  2. camillenanjala4 months ago

    Are the two of you battling any problem? Like maybe marriage or something? I know of many men who change because of infertility. Mine started behaving differently until I conceived my girl through surrogacy in Bio tex clinic. They start becoming violent. They then become temperamental. It is just a change of behaviors. Maybe they want you out. But they don't want to say it directly. So they expect you to read their behaviors. So that you can get tired of their nagging and leave them alone. But if that is not what you are undergoing. Then there is an issue with him. Try to speak to him. Is there anything that he wants to tell you. He might be going through some mental torture. I feel like h really needs you attention. Do not assume him and pretend that you are angry. Just because you feel like he is being bad. For every change of behavior there must be a reason behind. So be sure of what he is going through. I would wish to help but I feel it is something that you can do to. If you can decide to take him out for a vacation. Or perhaps for a candle lit dinner. Then when he is in his calm mind. Ask him politely what might be the problem.

  3. wulfff_brittney884 months ago

    Don’t take my advice mean at all. I’m just providing you with the data

  4. AmyAdams4 months ago

    Don't want to disappoint you. But, it happens...I mean yeah! Some people feel differently after marriage. Because, you get into a differing kind of relationship full of things, surrounding you. Stay strong! think plainly and calmly. I hope you'll realize stuff better, Talk him out! If you think there is something out of normal...I hope you guys find some way better. xx

  5. callisy1 month ago

    When people marry they bring along a recording in their head of how their parents treated each other, and also how they were treated by their parents. These relationships are where folks learn patterns of interacting for intimate relationships. Decide consciously what to keep from your folks and what to do differently. Learn how to express concerns constructively. A simple way to do that in sensitive conversations is to stick with the following sentence-starter options. In my clinical work I give couples a handout that includes these starter phrases. I encourage them to use the handout frequently, checking how to start each comment that might be sensitive or on topics that they know could be prickly. Make a list of all the issues about which you have disagreements, including the issues that you refrain from talking about out of fear that talking might lead to arguing. Your self-help treatment will be complete when you have found mutually agreeable solutions to all of these issues, and also have learned the skills to resolve new issues as they arise with similarly win-win solutions.

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