I am a stay at home mom. My boyfriend and I are constantly fighting over housework. I was wondering if stay at home moms are responsible for making their significant other lunch and coffee for work. I don't feel like I am responsible because I don't drink coffee and I'm not eating the lunch. I tell him he's not a kindergartner and can make his own food. He always makes me feel bad when I refuse to make him his food. He talks down on me like he's better than me because he works and I don't. Thank you in advance for all opinions.