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friends should support to come out of this trauma.

Miscarriage is such a horrible incident in any woman's life that left many physical as well as psychological effects on her. To become a mother of your own child is the happiest feeling ever but when this happiness ends into a miscarriage then it's really very heartbroken. The life seems to be meaningless. I must say that the people around her like husband, parents, siblings, friends should support her to come out of this trauma.

  1. LindaEskridge7 months ago

    Hi Mia! I know right, Miscarriage is one of the worst things in any woman's life. A perfect family is something every want, But not being able to conceive on your own feels like the end of the world. Not only friends, Everyone around that person should support her and give her enough love to get through this phase of life. Thank you for shedding some light on this important topic. Stay Blessed!

  2. ConstanceMorin7 months ago

    Hi Mia! At this time the support of everyone is something the mother needs most. It will help her recover from that loss quickly. It's a responsibility of everyone, not only her family and friends. Even some sweet words of hope have so much effect on the mother. I think it's better to join a support group at this time because when you hear other people's stories it motivates and power to get recover fast. Stay Blessed!

  3. noreenwawuda5 months ago

    Suffering from a miscarriage or stillbirth can be very traumatic. Not only is it taxing on you physically. But emotionally as well. While a woman’s body can heal and recover relatively quickly from a miscarriage. Emotionally, the healing process can take much longer. Although many women do not want to deal with their feelings after a pregnancy loss. Facing them can help you pull through and emerge a stronger person. As with any loss, it is normal for couples to feel grief after a miscarriage. Unfortunately, far too often, outwardly displaying signs of grief is seen as a sign of weakness. Causing some to be tempted to bottle up this emotion. Though you may want to appear emotionally strong to those around you. It is important to keep in mind that entering a grieving period after a significant loss is a perfectly normal human emotion.

  4. LonieKot3 months ago

    Miscarriage is really a bad thing for a pregnant woman.
    We are settled in Japan from last few decades.
    I had hysterectomy cancer. All of you should know its treatment and its result.As a result i was cancer free but for the lifetime i'm infertile now.So i was worried and tensed and than my husband came to know about surrogacy.Surrogacy is a method of raising a baby from someone's else egg. I was amazed at this method but when i studied about it i was happy.Here in Japan it is totally prohibited.So we moved to Europe and roamed in Europe for sometime and contacted many clinics there, Than we heard about a clinic in Ukraine and we moved to Ukraine. It is a very good clinic and we consulted them.
    They are the best they have best solution for us now.
    Then we found a surrogate mom and we donated the eggs and now surrogate is carrying our twin daughters. Now when i sit alone i thank god that he is giving us two gifts in one time. We are so happy and excited to have our babies.
    Please share your stories with me.

  5. emma2283 months ago

    Hey! I am sorry for you. Miscarriages are so hard to deal with. But we have to face it without losing hope. Sometimes something is better written in fate. I had Cervix incompetence disease in early years of my marriage and when i came to know i was extremely depressed. I was so devasted and that was not the end. After that, I was not able to get pregnant. I tried several times but failed. I was so upset and broken. I stopped trying on having babies after wasting so much time on the treatment. My husband was so worried about me. I heard about surrogacy one day and then I realized that this is the best way of becoming mother. I was so happy that I can at least have my own baby no matter who give him/her birth. So we went for it to a clinic. They provided us a healthy and reliable surrogate. They provided us with the rights on the baby as well. After a long journey, we had a baby. I was so happy that I have chosen that instead of wasting much time. I am having a great life with my family.

  6. Hannah.David3 months ago

    It is very true that MC can be extremely heartbreaking. Only people who have been through it can really understand the woman's feeling. Support at this point is really important. People should be careful with there words. However, people who have an MC should never give up. The best way to deal with depression is having a baby. Initially, it is hard and scary but once you have the baby things seem to look better. Stay strong!

  7. Jane Drake3 months ago

    I second your thoughts. Miscarriage is indeed the most painful thing. For one moment you get the happiness. Then suddenly it is snatched away. Even before you realize its gone. So yes it is very painful. A family needs to support the couple at such times. It is a very crucial time to show support.

  8. eilsie3 months ago

    Miscarriages are the worst thing ever. it completely breaks someone. everybody must support her. give her hope. words are everything in this condition. especially her husband needs to stand by her side. by his words, she can recover very fast. I will pray for her. I am she will try again after recovering. god, bless everyone. good luck in her life.

  9. sila3 months ago

    Hey Mia, How are you doing? I am agreed with your opinion. That being childless is the hardest time of life. Women suffer from this situation more. She has to answer the strangers. In all this, She needs the support of all her family. Especially, Your life partner must be supportive and loving. It causes some sort of relief and calm.
    Wishing baby dust to all.

  10. rea3 months ago

    Hey, there I can completely and understand your pain. We are in the same boat. I was a victim of infertility. I visited Adonis clinic in the UK. They came to me. They took all my money. They create a drama of successful IVF. At the start it was perfect. Then after 2 weeks, I have a miscarriage. When I contact the doctor. They ignored my calls. They didn't give my money back. So please be aware of such clinic.

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