guilt and need some advice!
I had my first miscarriage 5 yrs ago this Thursday which led to a D&C since my body held onto the fetus for 4 weeks. I was never asked about keeping the remains for any type of burial until I was literally coming out of anesthesia. In my grief and grogginess I said just keep it. I still feel horrible and guilty to this day that I did no service or burial of any kind. I have no place to visit and feel comfort. Anyone else have this happen and how do you cope? My husband doesn't seem to remember dates like I do so I pretty much grieve alone. He isn't being mean or have lack of caring but some support or a place to go would be nice.