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Miscarriage and wanting a baby!

I'm really needing someone to talk to. I can't talk to anyone about this, because they all look at me like I'm crazy.
I'm 22 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for 1 1/2.. Will be 2 years August 29th. I love him so much, I've never been happier.. We were friends for 6 years before we got together..
I'm wanting a baby really really bad.. I mean that is ALL I think about, I will literally lay her at night and cry because every time I see a baby.. I think about motherhood.. I lost my job a couple weeks ago.. And I thought that would make me stop but it hasn't.. I'm ready to be a mom.. I am so good with babies that I know almost everything there is to takin care of one (I helped with my nephew) my boyfriend does not want one. He said he NEVER wants one.. When I talk to him he just ignores me and doesnt say much. Idk what to do.. I think it's where I had a miscarriage 3 years, and i wish I could have it back but I cant :( .. I lost my baby 4 days before my birthday in 2011 and that's what really hurt... But my boyfriend not wanting a baby.. EVER?? Yeah.. That's a problem. But I love him, and I dont want to leave him.. Someone help me. I'm so emotionally with wanting a baby so bad.

  1. alice996 months ago


    oh, my God. I feel truly sad to hear your story. I had a similar experience a year ago. Try to convince your boyfriend. Have a conversation with him and let him know how you feel. Have a more positive outlook on life. I wish you good health. Lots of love

  2. serra6 months ago

    Hey. I am so sorry for you. Miscarriages are hard especially for a woman. I know how much you are hurt. I cant get how your boyfriend can be so insensible. He should care about you. I am so sorry I hope you will be a mom soon. I think surrogacy would be best for you. It is really an amazing process.

  3. milana36 months ago

    Hello. I am so sad for you. Unsuccessful labours are hard particularly for a lady. I know the amount you are harmed. I cannot get how your beau can be so unresponsive. He should think about you. I am so sad I trust you will be a mother soon. I figure surrogacy would be best for you. I have faced infertility that made me go for surrogacy. I faced infertility for 10 years. It is extremely an astonishing procedure.

  4. emma2286 months ago

    Miscarriages are extremely upsetting. Same was the case with me. I did not know that before but later I find out that I was infertile. I had cervix Incompetence disease which left me Infertile. I was not capable of becoming the mother. I made my mind to give up on the baby. I was extremely saddened. At Last, I started looking for something beneficial that could work out for me. I decided to go for surrogacy. I was sure that this would be something really helpful. I made my mind and told my husband that we should go for it. He was agreed as he wanted babies too. We went for it to a clinic where I have told them about medical complication on email. I was later blessed with a baby with their support.

  5. Petja6 months ago

    How you miscarried was there any reason behind this? I am sorry to hear about your miscarriage. But don't worry this happens to most of the women be strong and brave.
    I am also TTC from last 10 years but i can't conceive. There is no reason behind this. No one knows the reason behind my infertility. Even the doctors can't figure out the reason behind this. So we have decided to go for surrogacy now.

  6. diana_mom6 months ago

    Oh my Lord! how sad. I really felt deep sorrow for you. I also had to face such consequences time ago. All you can do is try to convince your boyfriend. You'd tell him about your emotions. Think positive about the things happening around. I wish you good health. Stay blessed and have a nice day!

  7. Jane Drake6 months ago

    This is a bad situation. Things would never work like this. You two will have to sit down. Talk out everything. You will have to decide what future has for you. Things cannot work if you dont. I mean just imagine. He does not want children ever. This is an alarming situation. If he fears you will go through an MC. Tell him that you wanna try at least. Or you can go for surrogacy as well. Whatever you want. I hope things work out for both of you. Good luck for future.

  8. Nida John6 months ago

    Hi There ? How are you? Hope you are fine. Dear we all are here for you. You can talk with us. Thanks for sharing your story with us. Really sorry for what you are going through. Being not able to conceive is very hard phase of women life. My prayers are with you. You are going to be amazing mother and your boyfriend will surely love your kid too as he loves you. Keep Smiling dear. Sending you baby dust xx.

  9. Marilyn Howard6 months ago

    Hey Christina. This is awful. I am feeling very sad about you. My dear think positive about the things happening around you. Don't worry this happen to most of the women. Be strong and brave. Everything will come to you on time. Your boyfriend will understand your desire by time. Maybe he is just so young and he wants to live his life. Everything takes time. Keep Calm and believe in your destiny.

  10. Elizza0496 months ago

    Hey! Hope so you are doing good. I just read your post. I really felt sorry to know about your miscarriage. But don't worry it is the part of life. There are so many methods to have a baby. But if your BF is not want to have it then you can persuade him. If in case he is not getting agree with your point then you can ask for reason Otherwise you should have to agree with his decision. That's my opinion.

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