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Thinking of surrogacy

I guess surrogacy is the last option for me now to have baby of our own.
I have contacted many surrogacy related clinics and had gathered quite good info about surrogacy.
I also contacted some surrogates who are willing to cary our child in their womb.
I was pregnant thrice but had miscarriages every time.
I had many complications while getting pregnant.
During my first marriage i had no luck with having children although i conceived for 3 times.
I know today surrogacy is a common thing but i am worried about many aspects of having a baby via surrogacy.
I guess we will find a surrogate wth the help of clinic we are consulting.
I am married for second time i want to have baby of my own to live with.
But regarding and having a look at my previous pregnancy period i know its not a good idea to be pregnant again.
So i talked to my husband and have agreed him to go for surrogacy option.
Soon we will start our journey.

  1. LonieKot3 months ago

    Good luck with your plans. Surrogacy is prohibited in many states. Like I am from japan there surrogacy is banned. So i had to move to Europe in search of surrogacy. I was infertile due to cancer. But my husband told me not to get worried because he had decided to go through surrogacy to have our kid. So we moved to Europe. Than from Europe we moved to Ukraine.

  2. sila3 months ago

    Hi! how are you? It's a sad story of your life.it is a difficult time for you. Every woman wants her own child like you and me too. I can feel the pain you have. I am facing infertility problem because of chromosomal abnormality.me and my husband wants our own child. I didn't go for adoption, because I am an adopted child. I have experienced worst behavior of my parents. one of my friends told me about surrogacy. I live in Ireland and searching for a surrogacy clinic in Europe. I am worried about the process too. I am trying to gather information about surrogacy. I have searched for many clinics in Europe.
    hope for best.
    best wishes for you dear.

  3. Robin James3 months ago

    Hey Sofia. How are you? I hope you're doing well. It's an awful situation. You must be devastated. Trust me, I can relate. We'd do anything to conceive naturally. However, we just can't. Does it mean we shouldn't try alternatives? I don't think so. I think it's important to get help from wherever we get it. Surrogacy is a really good alternative. It's slightly expensive but that's because it comes with a guarantee. Also, the difference is money isn't too much if you consider going to Ukraine. They excel in surrogacy and offer low rates as well.

  4. Petja3 months ago

    My treatment for infertility is surrogacy.
    I am from Bulgaria.Surrogacy is totally prohibited in Bulgaria.And there are no clinics for this.
    I was trying to conceive from last 10 years.But i didn't conceive for even one time.
    With the years passing i lost my hope of conceiving.The doctors also can't find the problem.
    So surrogacy was the last option.
    I contacted a clinic in Ukraine for surrogacy.The clinic is very popular for surrogacy.
    I visited the clinic and found the clinic to be very good with good record for infertility treatments.

  5. AmyAdams3 months ago

    Oh, that's good to thing to hear. So, yes! Go for Ukranian centers. My own cousin sister had her baby daughter from there surrogacy program last year. It went fine for her! Anyway! Stay blessed! My support is with you. :)

  6. DiannaViktor3 months ago

    Wish you all the best in your journey. I'm also undergoing an IVF this July at a repro center in Ukraine. So, yeah! I know how it goes! Anyway! Good luck with your surrogacy journey. I'm sure it will help you in changing your life. It's really important to have a child to complete marriage. My hubby and I've been planning and trying for years. But, anyway! TC! Not all of us have the privilege to have a child the natural way. Stay happy! Life is short! xx

  7. Jane Drake3 months ago

    There is nothing to worry about. As you said yourself. Your husband is supporting you. Other things will be taken care by the clinic. Just choose one wisely. Which surrogacy method are you going for? traditional one? Or the gestational surrogacy?

  8. Alana903 months ago

    Hey! Sad to hear about your MC. I know the fear you have. And that's correct surrogacy is been much common treatment and is adopted by many intended parents. You shouldn't be worried over the surrogate who would carry your child. I guess that's the clinic's responsibility whose services you have taken. And I hope you have selected the well-experienced clinic. Even I have come across to a number of clinics and I have very strong vibes that they would have the best services I could have asked for. Good luck.

  9. Hannah.David3 months ago

    Hey, Sofia I am extremely sorry to hear about your story. Infertility journeys are so hard to deal with. I remember when I was told that I was infertile and that nothing was probably going to work out. I was so shattered and broken. However, I am glad you have been able to convince your DH for surrogacy. I myself have opted for this procedure. So far everything has been going well. We are now waiting for the clinic to call us and tell us if the surrogate has got pregnant. Before, all of this we did get to meet her. She has an amazing soul! She was so kind and sweet to us. She clearly told me how she was trying her level best to help her. I felt like I have a special bond with her. The clinic did a perfect job in matching her to us. I hope everything goes well for you as well.

  10. Manon3 months ago

    Hi! hope you are doing well. Sorry to hear about you. MCs takes a lot from a woman. But I am happy that you are not losing hope. You have chosen a right way. Surrogacy is the best option available to you. It is just like a blessing for intended couples. And do not worry about the process. It is the safest way. Do not wait for anymore. Just go for it. My best wishes to you. Hope it will be a good experience for you. God bless you. Take care.

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