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Baby # 2

Hi everyone. How are you all? I'm a mother of a 10-month-old boy. I had him through surrogacy. I'm thinking to have another baby via surrogacy now. My husband has been dropping hints that he wants another child. Do you think it is too early for us?

  1. Ada1 year ago

    hey, I am absolutely alright. What about you.? well congrats on your first baby. according to me, it’s too early. Because you will have a baby through surrogacy. then why are you making hurry.? That baby can be achieved at any stage of life. Just relax and give devotion to your first kid. Next decision is yours.

  2. Boone1 year ago

    Many congratulations to you on your success. Of Course, It's a very encouraging story. You never stopped trying that is the main thing. We all have to face many difficulties in life. One should be kept stick to the situation until it's solved. The problem you told is emerging nowadays, due to some atmosphere change or however we don't know. But it's out there. These things broke people hearts. Whoever remains constant can get a victory like you. Keep it up.

  3. annabelle9871 year ago

    Hey Mallisa, really happy to learn that you had a child through surrogacy. I am happy because I have listened to another success story of this process. I am also going to have my surrogacy next month. So, I really become happy, when I came to know about different success stories of surrogacy. I don't know where you have done your surrogacy. But I am going to Ukraine. Please also pray for me. Well, your child is only 10 months old. You want another one. I think there is nothing bad in it. If you can afford two babies of very less age difference, then go for it. It's totally up to you. How will you manage two kids? People also take care of twins even multiples. So, if you can manage, you must go for it. Many best wishes for you. Hoping to listen to another success story soon.

  4. TheOptimistic1 year ago

    Dear Melissa it is great to know that finally you are a month. You are looking forward to have another baby. If your husband is giving you signals then it means he is longing for the young soul. If for any reason you cannot conceive the assisted pregnancy can be really helpful. You have already experienced surrogacy before so there is nothing difficult to understand. The plus point is that you got what you really wanted from surrogacy. If you start planning for another baby, you will be able to have one at a safe time. Surrogacy is a not process of days. It requires mother. As soon as you will make up your mind you must seek advice from the fertility clinic. After getting some essential diagnosis they will find you a surrogate mother. As you have been through surrogacy before so there would not be any problems for you. I wish you a complete family feeling soon.

  5. Leslie Hanson1 year ago

    Hi there! I hope you and the family are well. The blessing of a child is a great one. I think you should definitely go for another. Two isn't too many at all. I had my little girl through surrogacy as well. Which clinic did you go to? I'm thinking of baby #2 these days too! Keep us updated!

  6. melissastan1 year ago

    Hey guys. Thanks for giving me your opinion here. So a lot of you here think it is too early for me to have another baby right now. But I'm still confused. I think so too. But there are other things I should worry about too. I'm a 40 years old woman. I had my first child through gestational surrogacy. I went for this kind because I cant carry a child on my own but my eggs are fully functional. I don't want to be too old when I have my next baby. I'm also kind of worried about this other thing. It has actually been bugging me a lot. What if my eggs don't work later when I try to have a second baby? I really don't want to go for surrogacy with egg donation. It is very important to me.

  7. DiannaViktor1 year ago

    Congratulations dear! That's really so fine...I mean you guys really should try going for it. Last year my friend also had her 3rd baby through it. It's fine...There is no problem with the timeline with this. Stay blessed! *Throwing more baby dust to you*

  8. Hannah.David1 year ago

    I myself am going through surrogacy. It will be amazing to know your first surrogacy experience. As I believe it is always better to know some tips. Since you have experienced it I am sure you would have felt like you wish you knew something earlier. This process of surrogacy is so long. It is always necessary to learn more and more about it. It is honestly such wonderful to know that you are considering it the second time. Firstly, you should feel blessed that you have the means to go for it the second time. As it is pretty expensive. Although I have chosen a clinic which is inexpensive and offers an economic package. I still believe that it would take me at least 4 years from now onwards to even consider a procedure. You should always look at the family planning and about the future. The clinic I am visiting they uploaded a video regarding this. I found it very considerate that they were posting such videos. It was basically about how important it is to take care of your baby especially after you have it after surrogacy.

  9. Tiffanysmith11 year ago

    Hey there! I'm fine. Thanks for asking. How about you? Well, I'm really happy to hear about your first child through surrogacy. I had also a baby girl through surrogacy. Surrogacy is a blessing in disguise for infertile couples. But I think it is too early for you to go for next baby because your first baby is 10 months now. You should pay your full attention to your first baby. Your kid needs your full devotion. So I suggest that you would go for next baby after 2 years time. In the end, the decision is yours. Hope for the best. Take care of your self and your kid too. Goodluck.

  10. NIAVAIN1 year ago

    Hey, Melissa, congratulations on your first bundle of joy. While deicing for another baby, you may have to consider your current emotional and physical health. The general rule is to try for another bay is to wait for 18 to 23 months after the first baby. Because it allows you to recover and replenishes your body's resources. Another advantage of the small gap between the pregnancies is that the kids would be closer as compared to kids with a wider gap. Hun, this all depends on how much you are ready for another and how much you healthy are. Goodluck

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