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Don't give up

I always felt complete until two years ago. I started doubting my womanhood. Trust me it is the worst kind of doubt. I was leaving my apartment for grocery shopping with my husband. I saw a couple around the curb trying to pacify their baby. I would normally watch such adorable moments and say 'aww'. But this time no words came out. I just felt tears rolling down my cheeks. My husband saw me crying and took me back to our apartment. I was just waiting for him to say 'what's wrong honey?' and my eyes bursted in tears. 'you should leave me', 'why do you love me?', I can't even give you a child' , That was the first time that a year of failure in ttc was bothering me that much. He, being the most perfect husband he is, left no stone unturned to give my confidence back. I never liked Ukraine in person. But the blessing it has given me.. I can't thank my husband enough.

  1. Emma1242 months ago

    Hi, Hope you are doing well. Sorry to hear about your situation. You had been through a lot. But i am glad your husband supported you, He truly loves you. I am an infertile. I also went Ukraine for the treatment. Best thing is you didn't lose hope. Opportunity comes to those who keeps trying. Good Luck

  2. Ada2 months ago

    Marisa Coughlin that’s so sad of you. I can imagine your situation. It is really a heart touching feeling. This also made me cry. My eyes full of tears while reading your post. That’s so scary. I will suggest you not to lose hope. be brave and have another try.

  3. Hannah.David2 months ago

    I am not going to lie but after reading your posts I cried. I can completely understand how it feels like. Infertility is the worst thing you ever come across. I went through so many ups and downs throughout it. However, you need a good support system to make it all bearable. I am glad you have a husband who cared. I am so happy that eventually, everything ended on a happy note. Good luck in future!

  4. Jane Drake2 months ago

    This is such an adorable story. You are lucky to have a husband like him. Not every woman is lucky. Your husband is very supportive. My sister had been TTC for 5 years. No results. She talked to her husband. He was not supportive first. She somehow convinced him. She looked for clinics in Ukraine. After research, she decided to chose Lotus. Well, a horrible decision. They didn't even reply to her email. Now she got so scared. She is searching for more clinics now. She doesn't want her husband to change his stance.

  5. Alana902 months ago

    Hey! such a sweet post I must say. You are no doubt a blessed woman to have such a supportive husband. Usually, I have observed women who have been threatening by their DH and in-laws just because of infertility. And most of them broke up. But you are lucky enough that you have your DH by your side always. So how you had your baby? Was that surrogacy or IVF? Hope you had a lovely experience there.

  6. javj2 months ago

    A www such a sad story. It makes me cry. You have such a touching story. I can understand the pain. You have gone through a very rough time. I can completely understand your pain. It was the toughest moment of your life. When you see other people happy moments with their children. It will be tough for you. I was also infertile. Then I visited a clinic in Europe. They were best in dealing with surrogacy. Their services are less expensive. I wish you may have a bundle of happiness. Till then best of luck.

  7. eilsie2 months ago

    My tears rolled down after reading your post. You are a strong woman. I must say your husband is very supportive. In such cases, most husbands leave their wives just because they are infertile. But husbands support is everything for women. You are so lucky in this regard. Finally, with the support of your husband and your patience. You succeed to have a child. Every lady must get a lesson. Never quit. And never waste your time. If you are failed in TTC. Without wasting a single moment go for alternate ways. It will definitely give you mental satisfaction. I am sure there are also some other strong women like you. God bless you, dear. Take care.

  8. eilsie2 months ago

    My tears rolled down after reading your post. You are a strong woman. I must say your husband is very supportive. In such cases, most husbands leave their wives just because they are infertile. But husbands support is everything for women. You are so lucky in this regard. Finally, with the support of your husband and your patience. You succeed to have a child. Every lady must get a lesson. Never quit. And never waste your time. If you are failed in TTC. Without wasting a single moment go for alternate ways. It will definitely give you mental satisfaction. I am sure there are also some other strong women like you. God bless you, dear. Take care.

  9. jenny5882 months ago

    Aww, I totally get it. I know how hard it must have been for you. I can't even imagine how you coped up with all this. Your husband is definitely a gem. I mean it seems like he loves you a lot. I am so glad that he supported you and stood by you in this matter. And the blessing that you mentioned? Is it about your baby? I'm hoping that. Much love for you.

  10. Julie882 months ago

    You are so lucky to have such a supportive husband. It feels so great to hear that he stood by your side in the hard times. Infertility is really heartbreaking. Seeing situations where parents enjoy with their baby and you're TTC with no luck is really painful. I know that feel. I have had my surrogacy from Ukraine too. It was a lovely experience for me. Take care.

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