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Emotional support/ Pouring it out.

Hey everyone. I'm just gonna pour my feelings out on here... it's sad that I have to share my feelings/thoughts with people I don't even know. First off I'm 22 years old, mother of 2 boys and currently pregnant with my 3rd. I work every weekday and am in a not so stable 8 year relationship. I feel so down every day. I am completely drained from everything going on in my life right now. I feel like I have no support at all. I should have support from my partner but he's not being so supportive. He makes me feel so low about myself. We barley communicate about anything and that's that we even work together. He says he doesn't communicate with me because we are with each other all day... which is true but it should not matter. I feel so sad and he doesn't even notice. Ever. He pays more attention and helps out our coworkers than he does me at work. I'm pregnant and need all the help I can get. I struggle to get through the day working and he doesn't even care. The only time he acts like he cares about me is when he wants to do something with me. I also notice he has been interested in other girls. He says he's not but when he gets mad he tells me he'd like to be with certain women and he says they're attractive. We practically argue every single day. I'm upset about everything in life right now. This pregnancy has been the hardest out of all of them. I'm trying to be strong because I don't want my 2 boys to see me like this but I honestly don't know what to do about this anymore... I don't talk to any of my family, I keep to myself. I don't socialize with anyone about my problems or even at all so I keep everything bottled up to myself. I'm not sure about anything, I just need opinions on my situation.

  1. Christa6 months ago

    You definitely need to talk to someone or you're going to go crazy with resentment! You need support!

  2. callisy2 months ago

    Dear, it is good that you have opened up. I am sorry for what you are going through. I can see that you have battled enough. Your husband is not supporting you the time you need him the most. He is so self centered. As his wife, he should be putting you his priority. Kindly do not give up. Your 2 boys still need you. You should be the anchor of the family. At that stage if your life you should not be stressed. Now is when you need peace more than ever. Focus on your own happiness. If you keep thinking about your partner it will not be healthy for you. Sharing your part of story should also release the pain. Sometimes you will forced to concentrate on your life. Forget about what is around you. If negativity is all that is surrounding you. Strat dealing with positive vibes. Eat health and have a good lifestyle. Do not keep on stressing yourself with what your husband will do for you. Let him be what he wants to be. From now henceforth start being optimistic and let then old go.

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