Feel free to share your problems and stories

Hey there everyone I hope my post finds you in the best of your health. Well, I thought I would write a post in the hope that it will help everyone. I think that this forum is an amazing please to share your feelings and the difficulties regarding soo many problems. I was able to overcome my depression through this forum and I felt blessed being a part of it. So I have decided to start this thread where everyone can share their problems regarding TTC. Others should try to help them out by giving advice about what should be their next step. I know a lot of people are trying to conceive and are unable to get the desired result. While a lot are confused about which assisted conception method to opt for. So if you have a success story or if you are from this field please let's help each other. I think just by sharing one is able to assist another person. I will also share my story in a post which will hopefully help someone. the struggle and the fight of TTC is really a difficult one. Therefore, this is a little effort in the hope that things might get better. Sending lots of warm wishes and love to everyone. Sending baby dust your way.

  1. Ada1 year ago

    Hannah.David that’s a good point that you have taken for discussion. I was wondering for many days that how can we handle this situation. Because I belong to the medical field and observed that people are not well aware of it. we need awareness more than medical stuff. Many women don’t know even the symptoms of their pregnancy. They ignore such signs and at last, they have to face MC. Multiple times MC can lead women towards infertility. That is a much difficult problem. We should have some sense to take care of ourselves in such situation. Moreover, many women are confused about their TTC cycles. They want to know about them. But I think these problems are not involving rocket science and much difficult to cope with them. We can share our experience with each other and can get fruitful result. So we should have the campaign to solve out these problems. It’s our common society’s issue.

  2. Jasmine221 year ago

    It's good that you are trying to have a baby from very long time. You have to think according to your conditions right now. You are going from very tough situation. I know it is difficult for you to start thinking about other process. But you have to do it if you really want to have a baby in your life. You are lucky that you are born in modern era. There are lot of good clinics providing the facility to have a baby through surrogacy process. Couples those having infertility issues are now moving towards surrogacy. You have to do proper research to find the clinic for your self. There is no need to take extra tension in your life. This will create serious kind of mess in your life. And this will create problem for you after some time. Best of luck to you. I know you can do this. Just hope for the best and keep doing your research.

  3. DiannaViktor1 year ago

    Hi Hanna! I just read your whole post. I'm very much inspired the way you said stuff! More importantly with your idea. I really think we should help other from our experiences. Well, I've been through all that...So, I really know how it feels. Well, I'm also a TTC for so long. Now, I'm having an IVF later this year at a repro center in Ukraine. So, yeah! I'm having it through assisted method. I think people should really start considering stuff like this. They should properly be guided! Well, here I am...I'd love to join you in this cause. So, count me in. Stay blessed. xx Will join you later. xx

  4. Sofia19941 year ago

    I'm 43 year old now.
    I'm married now and i was married before.
    From my first marriage i had no luck with having children although i conceived for 3 times.
    I had many complications while getting pregnant.
    I was pregnant thrice but had miscarriages everytime.
    I am married for second time i want to have a baby now.
    Having a look at my previous pregnancy period i guess it is not a good idea to be pregnant again.
    So i talked to my husband and have agreed him to go for surrogacy option.
    Surrogate are willing to carry our child and the clinic had said that the surrogate will have no effect on the DNA of our child.
    The child will be off my and my husband DNA.
    BioTexCom is the perfect clinic for surrogacy i guess from the reviews of its clients.
    You should also visit BioTexCom for surrogacy method.
    I also contacted some surrogates who are willing to carry someone's child in their womb.
    Now we are looking for a perfect surrogate to carry our child in her womb.
    I also met some mothers raising babies from surrogacy procedure.
    I have contacted many surrogacy related clinics and had gathered a lot of information regarding this process.
    I guess someone here will also be going to surrogacy and will guide us.

  5. Leslie Hanson1 year ago

    Hi Hannah! I hope my comment finds you in health. I speak this from experience when I say that you are extremely right, TTC women really need an outlet where they can share their stories. We need to help each other out in these times of depression and desperation. I had to have my uterus removed due to some reasons which left me unable to conceive. I was so sad and depressed and lonely. My family felt incomplete. I was open to surrogacy, but a bad experience took that from me. I felt all was done and over. Nothing could be done now. But then, one day, I thought to expand my research and came across a great clinic in western Europe. I was not only able to get a surrogate, but they offered great services and care for my husband and I as well. I get to welcome my little girl in this world 14 days from now and I cannot express my feelings of joy enough! I hope everyone is able to find some way they are able to do the same. I am totally on this with you too. Take care! x

  6. Boone1 year ago

    Well yes you are right. I read it all. You are saying exactly right. This forum is so much helpful. You can just ask here anything you want to know and you'll get your answer from here. It's been really great that you tried so long. You see I am also under the same process. It's been a very long time for me now as well. I just want to be free. I don't know what should I do or what could I do. It's just really bad for me. I don't get it. Well like you I am sharing regularly and I am getting positive responses. Hoping for best now.

  7. Jenelia Smith1 year ago

    Hi Hannah! I'm glad you are working on this thing. Almost everyone is here to share their problems. But very fewer people are here with such posts to keep people motivated. I had been trying to conceive for 3 years but only got successful when I had surrogacy. To be honest, I made up my mind after joining this forum. Along with so many people telling me here to go for it, my doctors even suggested me to do that. I am blessed to have so caring people around me. I wish everyone with infertility have their problems solved as soon as possible.

  8. BarbaraJames9981 year ago

    Hi Hannah. How are you doing? I hope you are doing well. This thread is great. It's great that people think for others so much. I think if people share their stories. The people reading them get a lot of hope. This was the case for me. I had the hysterectomy. I was devastated. Then I saw people online. I read their stories it helped me a lot. I decided surrogacy. I am glad of the decision. A mother of two now. Available to help anyone who needs help. Wishing to hear more from you people.

  9. Tiffanysmith11 year ago

    Hi there Hannah! Thank you for shedding some light on this point. Some people are not even aware of these things. There are many little things. That can lead you to infertility. Ignoring such things can make a big problem later. Sharing our experiences here will help other women. I remember when I was infertile. I was not even aware of surrogacy. I gave up. But my sister helped me in this condition. And she told me to go for surrogacy. I was afraid because I have heard many clinics scamming people like this. But the clinic where I had my treatment was just perfect.

  10. Hannah.David1 year ago

    I have been reading all of your stories and I am glad that you're willing to share them. We all have or had to go through the worst days of our life to become parents. The journey can get very difficult and I remember when people used to tell me to not lose hope it used to frustrate me. As the women who are going through this only know how it feels. When I had my MC and I told my husband that this was it. I cant just keep trying and failing. As it just feels like that you're going to have a baby but everything falls. He did really help me come out of the whole situation. We contacted the clinic which we had come across through friends and by watching videos. Looking at my history the doctors suggested that I should go for surrogacy. The process was entirely new to me I wasn't sure what I was getting myself into. I remember coming back home and being filled with anxiety. As another woman was going to carry my child. Now, when the whole process is finally taking place and when I have been introduced to the surrogate I feel a lot better. However, this is one of the reasons why I started this post. As I know that there are soo many women out there who are about to go for the procedure or are going to. They need to be guided you're all welcome to post here and I will surely try to help you my level best.

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