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Friend needs advice

A friend is facing difficulties in TTC. I recommended she go for IVF or surrogacy. She's open to both options but she can't narrow down to one. IVF is great in that she can conceive herself. But there are many cases where it isn't successful. Or it is very time-taking. Surrogacy, on the other hand, can also be a little time taking, but at least it's a sure shot. The down with that is she can't conceive by herself. What should she do? Should she go through the trouble and wait of IVF. Or should she resort to surrogacy? I'm more inclined towards surrogacy since it's lesser stress. I may be biased though since I myself went for it. Can you suggest her?

  1. Diana Parker5 months ago



    Hey Leslie! it's good that you asked for suggestions before making a bad decision.You can operate for either surrogacy or IVF if you have been trying to conceive for more than a year without any results. The question is which one of them is better ? well, there are pieces you must keep in mind before making a decision. Going for surrogacy the woman partner is incapable to carry the child, a desire that is now in most women. IVF involves the fertilization of a woman's eggs by the sperm of the proposed father in a lab dish. This is an option for couples who need to have a baby on their own. Chances of a victorious pregnancy are usually higher with surrogacy rather than to IVF. Even though the rate of pregnancy is higher than the IVF, there are uncertainties included in it. The genes of the surrogate mother can change the growth of the unborn baby hence, a surrogate mother has to be chosen with utmost care. As for risks associated with IVF, ovarian hyperstimulation syndrome just like swollen and painful ovaries, ectopic fertility and stress can take place if IVF is operated for. Based on these factors, you can make the choice of a method that is best suited for you. Having a child is a great blessing from God Tell her to take a step and God will be with her. My best wishes are with her and good luck. :)

  2. Diana Parker5 months ago

    Hey Leslie, I'm glad to see your concern about your friend. A friend in need is a friend indeed. Hope she is doing good now. If she can carry a baby then she can go for IVF. I have heard many success stories of IVF but at the same time, there are many people who had failed IVF several times. So. there are certain circumstances that vary from person to person. It can also lead to abortion and trust me nothing could be worse than that. Suggest her to go for surrogacy as it has a high success rate. It is an easy procedure as compared to IVF. She should consult clinics in Europe. My sister is also having her surrogacy. She has completed her two cycles and looking forward to successful results. One of the most important things is having a trustworthy surrogate. Hope she will be blessed with her baby soon. I will pray for her.

  3. Manon5 months ago

    Hey there! How are you doing? I extremely sorry for your friend infertility. Well, she doesn't need to be a worry. I am also an infertile person. I opted for surrogacy as it was last hope. Now our surrogate is going to give birth to twin baby dolls soon. I suggest your friend also go for surrogacy. Best wishes to her.

  4. GloriaSullivan5 months ago

    Hello there. How are you doing? I hope you are doing well. I am sorry to know about your friend. Both IVF and surrogacy have their own pros and cons. Choice of the clinic depends on her condition. She must look into both. And discuss her condition with some expert. only then she can decide wht is better for her. Also, tell her to stay away from spams. Because there are many clinics out there who are just wasting people' time. This is what Adonis clinic did to us. And I can never frogive them. I hope it will never happen to anyone. Bets wishes to you. Stay blessed.

  5. CheriseThomas5 months ago

    How are you? I hope everything is fine. She is going through some tough time. I can feel her. It is no doubt a difficult situation for her. I am glad that you are there for her. Stay the same and keep helping her. I would like to say that you must take her to an expert. An expert will tell the best solution to her according to her condition. Choose a clinic wisely. Don't let anyone waste her prcious time. We waited so long for the Adonis clinic to answer. But they never did. Be aware of such situations. I hope everything will go well for her. My best wishes are with both of you. More power to you. Don't give up. Baby dust on all on TTC.

  6. Clara Parker5 months ago

    Hey Leslie, I'm glad to see your concern about your friend. A friend in need is a friend indeed. Hope she is doing good now. If she can carry a baby then she can go for IVF. I have heard many success stories of IVF but at the same time, there are many people who had failed IVF several times. So. there are certain circumstances that vary from person to person. It can also lead to abortion and trust me nothing could be worse than that. Suggest her to go for surrogacy as it has a high success rate. It is an easy procedure as compared to IVF. She should consult clinics in Europe. My sister is also having her surrogacy. She has completed her two cycles and looking forward to successful results. One of the most important things is having a trustworthy surrogate. Hope she will be blessed with her baby soon. I will pray for her.

  7. Ada5 months ago

    yes, Leslie Hanson! I am totally agreed with you. I will suggest her to join surrogacy. it’s a lifetime opportunity for the intended parents. For them, surrogacy is the best option so that they can complete their family. now infertility is not the issue of only one lady. It has become the issue of almost every lady. yeah, it’s so helpful that the science has progressed a lot and introduce these two best treatments to overcome this issue. I can easily understand the feelings of your friend now. Because I have to go through these feelings in my life. It’s was so dreadful feelings for me. but after my success in surrogacy, I forget all the worst feelings and got ready for the joyful feelings. I hope that your friend will also prove herself a brave lady and will surely get success. I will pray for her, take care.

  8. Meema125 months ago

    yes, Leslie Hanson! I am totally agreed with you. I will suggest her to join surrogacy. it’s a lifetime opportunity for the intended parents. For them, surrogacy is the best option so that they can complete their family. now infertility is not the issue of only one lady. It has become the issue of almost every lady. yeah, it’s so helpful that the science has progressed a lot and introduce these two best treatments to overcome this issue. I can easily understand the feelings of your friend now. Because I have to go through these feelings in my life. It’s was so dreadful feelings for me. but after my success in surrogacy, I forget all the worst feelings and got ready for the joyful feelings. I hope that your friend will also prove herself a brave lady and will surely get success. I will pray for her, take care.

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  10. kimberlyjames4 months ago

    It really depends on her condition you know. IVF doesn't work for everyone. Surrogacy sure is a safer option if you ask me. But people usually prefer carrying their baby themselves. So in this case, IVF would be better. You should keep these points in front of her and then tell her to make a decision. I hope this helped.

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