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Friend needs advice

A friend is facing difficulties in TTC. I recommended she go for IVF or surrogacy. She's open to both options but she can't narrow down to one. IVF is great in that she can conceive herself. But there are many cases where it isn't successful. Or it is very time-taking. Surrogacy, on the other hand, can also be a little time taking, but at least it's a sure shot. The down with that is she can't conceive by herself. What should she do? Should she go through the trouble and wait of IVF. Or should she resort to surrogacy? I'm more inclined towards surrogacy since it's lesser stress. I may be biased though since I myself went for it. Can you suggest her?

  1. Diana Parker1 year ago

    Hey Leslie, I'm glad to see your concern about your friend. A friend in need is a friend indeed. Hope she is doing good now. If she can carry a baby then she can go for IVF. I have heard many success stories of IVF but at the same time, there are many people who had failed IVF several times. So. there are certain circumstances that vary from person to person. It can also lead to abortion and trust me nothing could be worse than that. Suggest her to go for surrogacy as it has a high success rate. It is an easy procedure as compared to IVF. She should consult clinics in Europe. My sister is also having her surrogacy. She has completed her two cycles and looking forward to successful results. One of the most important things is having a trustworthy surrogate. Hope she will be blessed with her baby soon. I will pray for her.

  2. Manon1 year ago

    Hey there! How are you doing? I extremely sorry for your friend infertility. Well, she doesn't need to be a worry. I am also an infertile person. I opted for surrogacy as it was last hope. Now our surrogate is going to give birth to twin baby dolls soon. I suggest your friend also go for surrogacy. Best wishes to her.

  3. GloriaSullivan1 year ago

    Hello there. How are you doing? I hope you are doing well. I am sorry to know about your friend. Both IVF and surrogacy have their own pros and cons. Choice of the clinic depends on her condition. She must look into both. And discuss her condition with some expert. only then she can decide wht is better for her. Also, tell her to stay away from spams. Because there are many clinics out there who are just wasting people' time. This is what Adonis clinic did to us. And I can never frogive them. I hope it will never happen to anyone. Bets wishes to you. Stay blessed.

  4. CheriseThomas1 year ago

    How are you? I hope everything is fine. She is going through some tough time. I can feel her. It is no doubt a difficult situation for her. I am glad that you are there for her. Stay the same and keep helping her. I would like to say that you must take her to an expert. An expert will tell the best solution to her according to her condition. Choose a clinic wisely. Don't let anyone waste her prcious time. We waited so long for the Adonis clinic to answer. But they never did. Be aware of such situations. I hope everything will go well for her. My best wishes are with both of you. More power to you. Don't give up. Baby dust on all on TTC.

  5. Clara Parker1 year ago

    Hey Leslie, I'm glad to see your concern about your friend. A friend in need is a friend indeed. Hope she is doing good now. If she can carry a baby then she can go for IVF. I have heard many success stories of IVF but at the same time, there are many people who had failed IVF several times. So. there are certain circumstances that vary from person to person. It can also lead to abortion and trust me nothing could be worse than that. Suggest her to go for surrogacy as it has a high success rate. It is an easy procedure as compared to IVF. She should consult clinics in Europe. My sister is also having her surrogacy. She has completed her two cycles and looking forward to successful results. One of the most important things is having a trustworthy surrogate. Hope she will be blessed with her baby soon. I will pray for her.

  6. Ada1 year ago

    yes, Leslie Hanson! I am totally agreed with you. I will suggest her to join surrogacy. it’s a lifetime opportunity for the intended parents. For them, surrogacy is the best option so that they can complete their family. now infertility is not the issue of only one lady. It has become the issue of almost every lady. yeah, it’s so helpful that the science has progressed a lot and introduce these two best treatments to overcome this issue. I can easily understand the feelings of your friend now. Because I have to go through these feelings in my life. It’s was so dreadful feelings for me. but after my success in surrogacy, I forget all the worst feelings and got ready for the joyful feelings. I hope that your friend will also prove herself a brave lady and will surely get success. I will pray for her, take care.

  7. Meema121 year ago

    yes, Leslie Hanson! I am totally agreed with you. I will suggest her to join surrogacy. it’s a lifetime opportunity for the intended parents. For them, surrogacy is the best option so that they can complete their family. now infertility is not the issue of only one lady. It has become the issue of almost every lady. yeah, it’s so helpful that the science has progressed a lot and introduce these two best treatments to overcome this issue. I can easily understand the feelings of your friend now. Because I have to go through these feelings in my life. It’s was so dreadful feelings for me. but after my success in surrogacy, I forget all the worst feelings and got ready for the joyful feelings. I hope that your friend will also prove herself a brave lady and will surely get success. I will pray for her, take care.

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  9. Petja1 year ago

    I went to a number of doctors but no signs of infertility were traced. Now I am tired of this and I want a baby badly. TTC period is the very tough period of my married life. I was TTC from last 10 years. But I am totally infertile. And the reason behind this infertility is still unknown. So my husband has decided that we should undergo surrogacy journey to have a baby now.

  10. MirandaD9 months ago

    The thing is that one doesn't have a choice between with the two options. It really depends on your condition. If your friend's uterus is working well and is producing good in quality eggs then she can opt for IVF. If the egg quality isn't good then she can even go for IVF with DE. However, when opting for surrogacy it's like you don't have any other option. You have to opt for it. Therefore, she should visit a good doctor and ask for help. I have opted for IVF. However, when I will visit the doctor I am going to ask them if this is the best decision for me. It is because of this reason that I made sure I was visiting the right clinic. It is only doctors with experience who can answer these questions well. Good luck to your friend. If she needs any help do let me know. I can give in more details as well.

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