grief and loss

I hope everyone is enjoying their life. I am here to share my loss with you all. I am 35, and a woman with many sorrows. Six months ago I lost my child. I met an accident. And couldn't stand on my feet for two months. Doctors have declared me infertile. I am in a bad condition. I am so miserable right now that I don't want anyone to have the same circumstances. I don't know how to overcome all this. I need suggestions and advice to visit which clinic.

  1. Olivia_199011 months ago

    Hey Laura! Your story is so emotional. I cannot even imagine the pain you would have gone through. You are surely very strong. I hope you are doing fine after the accident. It sounds very painful to me. My prayers are with you. I hope you have recovered fully by now. I can understand the pain of infertility as I am going through hysterectomy myself. It came as devastating news to me when I got to know I cannot conceive naturally. Infertility drains you emotionally as you wake up every day blaming yourself. However, one of my cousins who has a child through surrogacy, suggested me to go to a clinic in Europe. I am really grateful to her for the suggestion. Right now I am consulting the doctors there and they are very helpful. They have helped me know why surrogacy is the best option for conception. So I would recommend you to opt for other conception methods such as surrogacy. I hope you stay strong. Take care of yourself.

  2. Ada11 months ago

    Laura! what’s about you now? I am feeling so sorry to hear your story. Lady! Be brave. One of my fellows was also infertile. She was also very nervous like you. Then she decided to go for surrogacy in Ukraine. She told me that there are so many good clinics in Ukraine. So, I suggest you visit these clinics. wish you best of luck.

  3. Leslie Hanson11 months ago

    I'm so sorry for you. It's really devastating what happened. How are you feeling now? Dealing with an MC is just something I cannot imagine going through. All I can say is, it'll get better. You'll get a chance to have your own child very soon. I think if infertility really is the case, then you should go for surrogacy. It's a really sure shot way for you to have your own biologically related child. I know the procedure can be an expensive one. However, there are clinics in Europe where it's a lot cheaper. Like almost half the price of those in America. I think you'll do pretty well with them. Also, I'd advise you stay clear of Adonis or Lotus. I've heard they've let a lot of people down. Don't want any more of that for you!

  4. rebecca1211 months ago

    Hello there, Laura. I literally have tears in my eyes right now! I feel very sorry for you, dear. I've lost my child too, I know this awful pain. A miscarriage is the worst thing that can ever happen to a woman. There isn't any pain greater than the pain of losing your unborn baby. You need to strong, mate. It isn't easy, it isn't easy at all, I know. But when life treats you this way, you have to give life at its face by being strong and positive. You will achieve your dream of becoming a mother soon, trust me. There are methods like surrogacy and adoption. Choosing surrogacy, you'll have a biological baby. It is trending nowadays as infertility is being common. Research about clinics with good customer reviews and high success rates. Honestly, Ukraine has the best fertility treatments. The decision is on you, Best of luck!

  5. zaviya11 months ago

    I hope you are doing alright. May you get well soon dear. I am really sorry for your condition. Don’t worry everything will be fine dear. May you get well soon. This is just a simple procedure. They are calling you for the second cycle. Most of the times it is not possible in the first cycle but it works the second time. So go and try it. Maybe you’ll get success this time. Best of luck and don’t worry.

  6. joshien11 months ago

    Hi there, I hope everything is okay. It really breaks my heart to hear about your problem. As stated above I believe sometimes it not just about physical care. Sometimes its natural and you cant really do anything about it. I think you should consult your doctor again. your doctor will only be the one to help you. Even if you are not able to conceive naturally you should look for other options. Many people have found a way to have a child even if they couldn't conceive. Surrogacy and IVF are the two options you should definitely try out. I hope it helps. You really seem to be a strong woman. Looking forward to hearing from you. Wish you Good luck.

  7. zianarose11 months ago

    hi, So sorry to know about your loss. Handle the situation wisely and calmly. Don't take the stress. Don't overthink. All will be fine. Stay positive and happy. I think you should go for a checkup. Think positive all will be fine sweetheart. My best wishes are with you. All the very best. Nowadays infertility is not a big problem. Surrogacy is indeed the best method. IVF is also a good process where children would be genetically linked with you. In Europe, there are best clinics. Which are not so expensive and provide you with a great environment. All the best. Stay happy. Better things will come soon

  8. Lina Williams11 months ago

    I know it is difficult to realize that a couple is infertile and cannot have their own children. People have been working in these fields for quite some time. Scientists have made a good enough decision that would be helpful for many of the people who cannot have their own children. This process is called surrogacy. There are clinics that are performing these operations for some time and has helped people a lot. My cousin went for surrogacy. She is so much satisfied with the results she got. I would suggest people go for surrogacy. This would help you a lot and you will be able to get the best feeling of your life.

  9. hannahgr11 months ago

    Hello dear. Hope you are fine. I can understand you must be going through a lot. Don't lose hope dear. There are many good clinics in Europe for infertility treatments. You can go for either surrogacy or IVF, whatever suits you. I've seen many success stories of surrogacy and IVF. I wish you come out of this soon. Good luck!

  10. Ashley Avril11 months ago

    Hey Laura! I do not know harsh for how to console you right now! Your story and your experiences are way too harsh. I swear I had tears in my eyes when I read that you lost a son recently in an accident. My dear! May God give you the patience to cope up with the loss which has no compensation what so ever.
    However, it is also very sad to hear about your issue regarding infertility. But hey Laura! Trust me! There are many ways to cure infertility and be able to be a mother. You need to see a good doctor and a good support system. You do not need people around who give you negative thoughts and negative ideas. Well, I am a married woman for 7 years and I am still trying to conceive. I am not going to give and so you should not give up too. I have found an amazing clinic in Europe. You need to visit that place. It is amazing.
    Hope to hear soon from you then!

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