How do you get past this?

Hello people. I am finding it hard to cope. I lost my baby. I was 28 weeks pregnant. I don't know how it happened. Maybe it was carelessness on my part. Either way, I feel just so awful. It was going to a girl. I had picked out a name. Had started shopping for her. I don't have the strength to try again. What do I do? How do you get past this? Is it possible to stop feeling this awful? This incompetent?

  1. [ deleted account ]1 year ago

    I'm sure it wasn't your fault! I lost a pregnancy earlier on and it took me so long to recover but eventually I was at peace with it. You'll probably hurt for a long time but eventually you'll get stronger agian.

  2. MirandaD2 months ago

    I am really sorry to hear about your loss. I can understand how hard this must be for you. Just stay strong and positive. I would suggest that you keep yourself busy with something or another. Maybe start looking for your next plan of action. Research about treatments! Reading success stories also helps. Sending baby dust your way.

  3. MarianaK1 month ago

    Aw, honey. I can't believe this. I know, how a miscarriage feels. However, mine was way too early. This one, at 28 weeks. My god, I can't imagine it. You must be going through such a difficult time. Good luck to you, honey. You can get through it. You're a strong woman. Just remember, that it was not your fault, okay? I'd suggest getting the tests done. It's important to be on the safe side before trying again. My prayers are with you. I really hope you get that happiness, soon.

  4. melissastan1 month ago

    Hey. Hope you are feeling better. This is awful news. I'm really sorry for your loss. I wish I could do something for you here. But sadly I can only pray. I really hope you get through this. It won't be easy. But you have to try. This is not the end of the world. Sometimes you can avoid such situations. Regardless, miscarriages are horrible. I wouldn't wish one even on my worst enemies. Maybe you should take some time off for yourself. You can TTC again when you are ready. I hope everything goes well. Hang in there.

  5. kimberlyjames1 month ago

    Miscarriages are never easy. I have never had one. But I know what it would be like to lose your baby. I'm so sorry it happened to you. But you need to be strong. We are here for you. Everything will be fine. It just takes time. Good luck.

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