I cannot get pregnant

Hello guys! I hope all of you are doing great. As of now, I am also feeling a bit better. Earlier I was very ill due to my heart disease. I have recently recovered to some extent. But sadly it is a fatal disease. It can take even years to completely get out of my heart. Until then I cannot get pregnant. I cannot wait so much. I am already 28. Medication is not working for me. No, I have decided to do something else for my situation. But I do not know what to do. You ladies have a lot of experience. It is you that I find reliable. I am seeking for as many advices as you people can give. I also pray for others who are fighting the infertility problems. Support and love are needed.

  1. Elise-Uk1 year ago

    Hey , I know it must have been extremely difficult for you.Take care of your health. Health should become first. you shouldn't lose your hope. In this situation keep your self-strong. Your health is very important for your family. Do not need to be worry., As the technology has improved. It allows women to conceive even when nothing seems possible. Technology makes everything possible. Even those couples who can not conceive naturally. They think they cannot see their baby in their lives. But now they have their own biological child. Technology makes it possible for them. Fill their life with happiness. I also suggest you surrogacy. There are many clinics that give surrogacy treatment. Surrogacy is the blessing of technology. I also face through that situation. But though surrogacy I have my own bay in my life. Surrogacy is the viable option for the couples. When one is infertile. But most carefully choose your professional team . Who will guide you completely. Make your own research also. Choose best for you. Best of Luck

  2. Elise-Uk1 year ago

    "Hey. Hope you are fine. I know it is a very difficult situation for you. Especially for mother and the whole family, it is very difficult to face that situation. But do not need to lose hope.
    Always hope for the best. I suggest you choose surrogacy. Surrogacy changes many couples,s life. Surrogacy is the fact that this [procedure gives the chance to have a baby for couples. So do not lose hope. And instead of losing hope try to make your own research on surrogacy. Choose the best clinic for it. Who guides you step by step properly. Best of luck."

  3. Ada1 year ago

    ashley Benson that’s so sad to you. I can understand how are you are feeling. My hopes and best wishes are with you. don’t lose hope and courage. You will be a mom one day. The need is just to keep your soul and courage high. Never let fear to overlap your hopes. A bright day is waiting for you. no matter how much the darkening day it is.

  4. diana_mom1 year ago

    Hi Ashley. I am a doctor. And I can understand what it feels like. But don't lose hope. I saw many women who losses hope when they declared infertile. I just want to appreciate your will. Today science has been developed so much. There are now infertility treatments. After reading about your condition I think you should go for surrogacy. Because surrogacy is the best option for the women who cannot carry a child. There are so many clinics all around the world. I suggest you discuss this matter with your heart doctor. I saw many women are getting fulfilled they're desired of becoming a mother. Hope so my suggestion will give you some relaxation. Will remember you in my prayer.

  5. ella2321 year ago

    I know it must have been extremely difficult for you as being told that you're infertile is a pretty harsh reality to accept. Anyways, I feel like you shouldn't lose hope. As the technology has improved, it allows women to conceive even when nothing seems possible. In your case, if you're producing fertilised eggs then you could easily go for surrogacy. Make sure the clinic you choose is a good one. This will ensure that the process goes smoothly. With surrogacy, the major concern is the legal framework. So make sure you read all that. I myself am in the procedure of surrogacy. Since a lot of people here on the forum were talking about a clinic in Eastern Europe I have actually opted for it. However, my advice to you will be to research on your own. Researching and deciding are two important components, especially in such matters! There make sure you are thinking rationally. Sending baby dust your way!

  6. Emily1231 year ago

    Hi Ashley! sorry to hear about your heart condition. Cardiovascular diseases are a major cause of infertility in women. I am glad however that you are still fighting. Let me share with you my experience. I was diagnosed with infertility after 2 years of TTC and 2 failed IVFs and I was left hopeless. I felt exactly how you must be feeling right now. That was a hard phase in my life. Then I got to know about surrogacy and since I always wanted my own biological child. I guess surrogacy came to me as a blessing. After surfing the internet and getting positive reviews about surrogacy I decided to go with it. I consulted a clinic in Ukraine named Biotexcom for my surrogacy procedure and it was the best decision of my life. Not only did I get to see the country's culture but the people there were very kind. The clinic also paid for the cost of traveling and accommodation. I got to meet so many couples with success stories through surrogacy there and now I am also the mother of my own baby daughter through surrogacy. I hope you also get to have children. Take care

  7. emma2281 year ago

    Hello! Sorry to know about your infertility. Infertility is a pathetic situation to be in. It really is a horrible, horrible problem. The worst thing about all this is that there is no natural way to get over it. I am also facing infertility due to cervix Incompetence. There are alternatives. Science has come up with a few. They are effective, but they aren't natural. I, myself, will be undergoing surrogacy procedure soon. Our reliance on science is growing day by day and we shouldn't think of it as a bad thing. I'd suggest you go for surrogacy too. It's very safe, low risk and very less hassle. You can always look into detail about the surrogacy procedure, or talk to me about it. I hope it works out for you. Good luck to you!

  8. Julie0491 year ago

    Hi! Hope so you are doing good.
    I just read about your problem you are facing right now. It made me so sad. You don’t need to worry about it. Almost every 6th couple is fighting with infertility.
    I think you should go for surrogacy. It seems good for your condition. As, it is difficult for you to carry a baby, so a third mother would carry your child in this process. It may be good for you. I am also suffering from cardio stenosis, a heart disease. I could not conceive naturally. Then I went for surrogacy. It made me fulfill my wish. Now I have my own baby now.
    All my sympathies are with you.

  9. Emma1241 year ago

    I am sorry that you are facing multiple problems. Infertility can't be cured with medicine. If you are infertile you have to look for other options. I suggest you to think about surrogacy. Surrogacy works like magic for infertile. Ukraine clinics are famous because of surrogacy. The clinics are affordable as well as have the latest technology.

  10. Jane Drake1 year ago

    I am sorry you had to go through all this. I know it can be painful. Well, you are still young. You can wait for few years. but obviously it is your call, The heart condition can take a lot of time. Now obviously you cannot give birth. It can be fatal. I would suggest you go for surrogacy. It is the only option left for you. You can adopt too. But surrogacy means the baby can be genetically yours as well. You can donate your eggs. Or your husband's sperm. The surrogate will carry the baby

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