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I cannot get pregnant

Hello guys! I hope all of you are doing great. As of now, I am also feeling a bit better. Earlier I was very ill due to my heart disease. I have recently recovered to some extent. But sadly it is a fatal disease. It can take even years to completely get out of my heart. Until then I cannot get pregnant. I cannot wait so much. I am already 28. Medication is not working for me. No, I have decided to do something else for my situation. But I do not know what to do. You ladies have a lot of experience. It is you that I find reliable. I am seeking for as many advices as you people can give. I also pray for others who are fighting the infertility problems. Support and love are needed.

  1. Emily1239 months ago

    HI there Ashley! Hope you are in good health. So sorry to hear about your heart disease. I hope you get better soon. I have heard heart diseases can cause infertility and I am sorry that you had to face this. Infertility can be very hard to deal with both emotionally and physically. I hope you get better soon. I would recommend that you do not give up hope just yet. We are in the 21 century and apart from adoption, IVF and surrogacy are still options you can chose from to start your family. I would recommend that you go from surrogacy from Ukraine as I have also been through this procedure and it was one of the best decision of my life. I am not a mother of a baby girl because of surrogacy. I wish you the best of luck .

  2. ella2329 months ago

    I know it must have been extremely difficult for you as being told that you're infertile is a pretty harsh reality to accept. Anyways, I feel like you shouldn't lose hope. As the technology has improved, it allows women to conceive even when nothing seems possible. In your case, if you're producing fertilised eggs then you could easily go for surrogacy. Make sure the clinic you choose is a good one. This will ensure that the process goes smoothly. With surrogacy, the major concern is the legal framework. So make sure you read all that. I myself am in the procedure of surrogacy. Since a lot of people here on the forum were talking about a clinic in Eastern Europe I have actually opted for it. However, my advice to you will be to research on your own. Researching and deciding are two important components, especially in such matters! There make sure you are thinking rationally. Sending baby dust your way!

  3. Nida John9 months ago

    "Hi Ashley Benson..How are you? Hope you are fine. Really sorry to know about your heart disease. I hope you will recover fully very soon. I can feel what you are going through. One of my close friend also had a same kind of situation. I felt her pain because I was with her all the time. Her husband suggested her to go for artificial methods like IVF and surrogacy.As she had faced many issues in her life. They don't want to take any risk so they decided to go for surrogacy. By the Grace of God it worked for them
    I think you should also go for these treatments. They have changed the life of so many hopeless couples.
    It will surely work for you too. Good luck

  4. karsynne9 months ago

    Hey there! How are you doing? Hope you are doing fine. We are doing great. I am so sorry that you have to go through so much pain. Don't lose hope. We are supporting you. We are with you on this journey of yours. You should pay gynecologist a visit and see what they tell you. If you are fertile then you can TTC naturally, IUI or IVF. That's up to you. If you are unfortunately infertile then there are options such as Surrogacy and Adoption. Pick what is best for you. Take care. God bless.

  5. sila9 months ago

    Hello, Hope you are fine. I am really sorry for your disease. It's a bitter reality to be infertile. But its a decision of fate. I am an equal sharer in your sorrow. I have inherited infertility. I am also of 28. I want a child of my own. I am also looking for options. The better option I found is surrogacy.
    Wish you a good health take care!

  6. pheebs229 months ago

    Hey. i am sorry for what you are going through. Please, take care of yourself. I hope your condition gets better. I advice you to go for adoption. It is safe. It is reliable. It is something where you know that there is a positive result to it. I hope you figure something out soon. I understand that you are getting older. Just focus on getting better. Have a proper diet, and meals. Some proper sleep with that. Go for running. This will help a lot. I believe in you. I know you can do this. Just prove that to yourself and everyone around you. take care of yourself. Good luck for the decision you make. I hope it brings you peace and happiness.

  7. Emily1239 months ago

    Hi Ashely! Hope you are in good health. I am so sorry to hear about your situation hun. Just hang in there and don’t lost hope. I will guide you as best as I can since I have also gone through infertility. There are a number of option that you can chose like IVF/IUI/surrogacy. The first two can help you get pregnant but are not always successful. I am not sure if they will work on people with heart condition since pregnancy can strain the body and the heart along with other things. However, surrogacy can help in this matter. I have also gone through surrogacy. Let me assure you that it is a sure shot. I went to Ukraine for my surrogacy procedure and recommend you do the same. All the best on your journey.

  8. RhondaJet9 months ago

    Hey there. I am really sorry to hear about your problem. Don't you lose hope? Things will be fine. Just be strong. There are surrogacy and IVF too. You can go for it. take care.

  9. Boone9 months ago

    I am so sorry, dear. If you have that kind of problem. You don't need to worry about that. Everything is going to be alright for you. Just try to take care of yourself. If that is the deal with you. Still, you want a child so desperately. I think you should consider a surrogacy and adoption. Both methods are going to be very helpful for you. I guess this is really good. I am hoping that you could get your happiness this soon.

  10. MariaCoughlin9 months ago

    I am sorry to know about your heart disease. I know this is something difficult to handle. But you don't need to worry about it. There are ways to help you. IUI, IVF, surrogacy etc. They can help you on this journey. All you need to find out with the help of some expert that which one is best for you. Hope you will find it soon. Baby dust on your way.

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