I want to share my story.

Hello my name is Emma I would like to share my story and I wish this would help other people who may found themselves in the same situation. For many people surrogacy is one of the few options they have when they want to have a child and while it has its good points, like anything there are some things one must consider when opting for certain options. I am from Lima, Peru now I have a beautiful daughter named Dalma, she is my treasure after 4 years of TTC. Me and my husband are medium level citizen we arent rich but we can live quite comfortable and happy lives. We had been married for what would be 10 years, I am now a woman who is around 40 years old and our little baby has 3 years. Me and my husband met during work I was a teacher in one of the towns deep into the mountains and my husband working for a Mining company in that same town. We met for accident and we rapidly fell in love. We marry quite quickly but we had quite a happy time together, after a year of so we began wanting to have a child. We had reached some sort of stability so we tried for a year but we ended with no positive results. After trying for a couple more months we went to see an specialist which inform us after many different test that I could never get pregnant. I am sorry but I dont wish to share the reason of my infertility as is something which is way to personal to share it right now. What I can say is that it affected me and my husband really hard, he began to grew distant using his job as an excuse to be alone. We went through some hard moment until we eventually sit and talked with the help of a common friend along with his and my parents support. Eventually after making peace with each other we seeked other ways I could become pregnant. In the end because of my condition we could only go for surrogacy, and while at the beginning all went well we went to specialized center and gor a surrogate mother. The nine months passed in a flash and in there tragedy strike. You see according to the laws in Peru the surrogate mother can wait till she has given birth to change her mind. We treat her well and made sure she could be as comfortable as possible we make sure she was sure during different stages of the pregnancy but at the end when we had our hopes crushed as she changed her mind and took out baby. We once again felt like we were hitting the bottom. We were dubious of trying for another surrogacy after such experience but after a couple of months we decided to try again. Fortunately it went well and we have to our little adoration. I would like to advice other people to look into the surrogacy laws in any country they want to try before they go this path. Some laws doesnt support people like us who wants to have family, I hope this helps. thank you. I hope it helps anyone who read this and if there is any question, feel free to ask.

  1. dazzy shahu5 months ago

    Hi friend, I want to appreciate for courage to share your success story at this reliable platform that is beneficial for millions of woman who are facing infertility problem all over the world. This is good idea to provide maximum benefit with your personal life experience. I read your success story word by word. This fulfill my whole body with the strong will and confidence to share my personal life story at this reliable platform that boost confidence of millions of women to defeat this infertility demon in short time period like us. It is very strange thing happen in my life. I want to overcome infertility demon at any cost. We try each and every effective and powerful method but not succeed. This is very horrible situation in my life that ruins my life day by day. It is death in installment. It is not easy job to handle this horrible situation without depression and stress in life. You should be very informative to understand your body signals very well to overcome stress and depression with powerful yoga and meditation that is most popular and reliable method to overcome stress and depression in short time period.
    It is medical proven fact that stress and depression are responsible factor for infertility problem. You should maintain your body and mind with balance with healthy balanced diet that is very important to provide appropriate nutrition value to all body for genuine working to conceive effectively. You should maintain high hemoglobin level in your blood to conceive effectively that is the best in class method to defeat infertility demon in natural way. You get maximum benefit with healthy lifestyle that is required to provide proper blood supply to all reproduction system.

  2. g44083805 months ago

    Hi, Emma. I love the way you are trying to help the people by telling your story about surrogacy. Watching you I cannot resist telling my story to the people. I can say today medical science is very advanced and all the problems regarding the reproductive system can be cured. The highest success rate of surrogacy in the world belongs to Ukraine where I went to see a good gynecologist, who suggested me of surrogacy. I want to give thanks to all researchers who are working day and night to cure infertility problem with most effective medical treatment. I took treatment of surrogacy in Ukraine. Now I have a sweet baby girl who is the joy of my world. So I will suggest everyone not to panic in this situation, try to seek support from your partner as you will really need it in that period. One thing I can say about surrogacy is that it provides real value of time and money with effective result. Hope my thoughts will be helpful to you all.

  3. Shakira 3 months ago

    Oh, my! That is so sad. I am glad things turned out well at the end. Where did you go for surrogacy the second time? Did you stay in Peru this time too? That would have been a gamble. You wouldn't have known for sure if she would give you the child or not.

  4. Malena3 months ago

    An inspirational read it was. You are a fighter and the winner too. Many couples just don't think of options, especially surrogacy when they are infertile. They never realize that they can still have a baby. That this could be life-changing for them. Instead, they prefer to stay awake at night, moan about their last MC and are always complaining. I wish all of them to read your story and start working towards their dream of becoming parents.

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