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Hello my name is Emma I would like to share my story and I wish this would help other people who may found themselves in the same situation. For many people surrogacy is one of the few options they have when they want to have a child and while it has its good points, like anything there are some things one must consider when opting for certain options. I am from Lima, Peru now I have a beautiful daughter named Dalma, she is my treasure after 4 years of TTC. Me and my husband are medium level citizen we arent rich but we can live quite comfortable and happy lives. We had been married for what would be 10 years, I am now a woman who is around 40 years old and our little baby has 3 years. Me and my husband met during work I was a teacher in one of the towns deep into the mountains and my husband working for a Mining company in that same town. We met for accident and we rapidly fell in love. We marry quite quickly but we had quite a happy time together, after a year of so we began wanting to have a child. We had reached some sort of stability so we tried for a year but we ended with no positive results. After trying for a couple more months we went to see an specialist which inform us after many different test that I could never get pregnant. I am sorry but I dont wish to share the reason of my infertility as is something which is way to personal to share it right now. What I can say is that it affected me and my husband really hard, he began to grew distant using his job as an excuse to be alone. We went through some hard moment until we eventually sit and talked with the help of a common friend along with his and my parents support. Eventually after making peace with each other we seeked other ways I could become pregnant. In the end because of my condition we could only go for surrogacy, and while at the beginning all went well we went to specialized center and gor a surrogate mother. The nine months passed in a flash and in there tragedy strike. You see according to the laws in Peru the surrogate mother can wait till she has given birth to change her mind. We treat her well and made sure she could be as comfortable as possible we make sure she was sure during different stages of the pregnancy but at the end when we had our hopes crushed as she changed her mind and took out baby. We once again felt like we were hitting the bottom. We were dubious of trying for another surrogacy after such experience but after a couple of months we decided to try again. Fortunately it went well and we have to our little adoration. I would like to advice other people to look into the surrogacy laws in any country they want to try before they go this path. Some laws doesnt support people like us who wants to have family, I hope this helps. thank you. I hope it helps anyone who read this and if there is any question, feel free to ask.

  1. dazzy shahu9 months ago

    Hi friend, I want to appreciate for courage to share your success story at this reliable platform that is beneficial for millions of woman who are facing infertility problem all over the world. This is good idea to provide maximum benefit with your personal life experience. I read your success story word by word. This fulfill my whole body with the strong will and confidence to share my personal life story at this reliable platform that boost confidence of millions of women to defeat this infertility demon in short time period like us. It is very strange thing happen in my life. I want to overcome infertility demon at any cost. We try each and every effective and powerful method but not succeed. This is very horrible situation in my life that ruins my life day by day. It is death in installment. It is not easy job to handle this horrible situation without depression and stress in life. You should be very informative to understand your body signals very well to overcome stress and depression with powerful yoga and meditation that is most popular and reliable method to overcome stress and depression in short time period.
    It is medical proven fact that stress and depression are responsible factor for infertility problem. You should maintain your body and mind with balance with healthy balanced diet that is very important to provide appropriate nutrition value to all body for genuine working to conceive effectively. You should maintain high hemoglobin level in your blood to conceive effectively that is the best in class method to defeat infertility demon in natural way. You get maximum benefit with healthy lifestyle that is required to provide proper blood supply to all reproduction system.

  2. g44083809 months ago

    Hi, Emma. I love the way you are trying to help the people by telling your story about surrogacy. Watching you I cannot resist telling my story to the people. I can say today medical science is very advanced and all the problems regarding the reproductive system can be cured. The highest success rate of surrogacy in the world belongs to Ukraine where I went to see a good gynecologist, who suggested me of surrogacy. I want to give thanks to all researchers who are working day and night to cure infertility problem with most effective medical treatment. I took treatment of surrogacy in Ukraine. Now I have a sweet baby girl who is the joy of my world. So I will suggest everyone not to panic in this situation, try to seek support from your partner as you will really need it in that period. One thing I can say about surrogacy is that it provides real value of time and money with effective result. Hope my thoughts will be helpful to you all.

  3. Shakira 7 months ago

    Oh, my! That is so sad. I am glad things turned out well at the end. Where did you go for surrogacy the second time? Did you stay in Peru this time too? That would have been a gamble. You wouldn't have known for sure if she would give you the child or not.

  4. Malena7 months ago

    An inspirational read it was. You are a fighter and the winner too. Many couples just don't think of options, especially surrogacy when they are infertile. They never realize that they can still have a baby. That this could be life-changing for them. Instead, they prefer to stay awake at night, moan about their last MC and are always complaining. I wish all of them to read your story and start working towards their dream of becoming parents.

  5. pheobe4122 months ago

    This is really motivating for us. I liked your story, my friend. It's been really great reading about your journey and the problems that you faced. It's like looking in a mirror. Let's hope the end will be good as well.

  6. Sara Taylor2 months ago

    You have done a great job. Your story is very motivational. You are a warrior I must say. I think such stories inspire others. Surrogacy is a process which requires tough time too. You have to deal with the pressures. It is not successful on the first attempt. To deal with this tension is a tough task, I think you should tell some more about it. I mean what clinics you prefer etc. Your experiences will help others to make good decisions. I think you have got enough knowledge to let them know that what is the possible solution to the issues. Anyways all the best. Enjoy your time with your little one. All the good wishes to you.

  7. LonieKot2 months ago

    Surrogacy is a blessing for many women and families.With this surrogacy many women are able to hold their babies.Some women cannot carry their baby in their womb.So they need someone else to carry their kid.Surrogacy is the best solution for women like this.
    I'm also one of these women.I had hysterectomy cancer due to which i was totally infertile.Than we came to know about surrogacy.We first moved to Europe for surrogacy.Japan has banned surrogacy so we moved to Europe.In Europe we stayed for 4 months.We found many good clinics regarding surrogacy.But we weren't able to satisfy us.Than we moved to Ukraine to find a good clinic.Ukraine is very popular in surrogacy.Here we found many clinics.But we went for BioTexCom.The clinic helped us to find a good surrogate for us.Now we will have two daughters from the surrogate.We are so happy and excited to hold our little girls.
    Wish you all good luck.

  8. Hannah.David2 months ago

    Hey, Emma thank you for sharing your story. I think this is an important factor that needs to be looked into. I think going to a place where laws and regulations are strict is extremely important. We sometimes don't realize how essential that is. When I chose my clinic abroad I made sure that certain things were being followed. First that the country had it legalized. As there are a lot of countries where this process is done illegally. Which I think is extremely dangerous. Secondly, I wanted to ensure that the child's documents were being given. As in a lot of countries that is also an issue. I think it is horrible as it violets the child's right. Anyways, lastly, the surrogate is chosen after meeting a criterion. Now having this criterion is extremely important. She needs to pass the health test and she should be doing it with her won choice. I luckily did find all these characteristics and I am glad I did. As now I am at much ease.

  9. Sofia19942 months ago

    I'm 43 year old now.
    I'm married now and i was married before.
    From my first marriage i had no luck with having children although i conceived for 3 times.
    I had many complications while getting pregnant.
    I was pregnant thrice but had miscarriages everytime.
    I am married for second time i want to have a baby now.
    Having a look at my previous pregnancy period i guess it is not a good idea to be pregnant again.
    So i talked to my husband and have agreed him to go for surrogacy option.
    Surrogate are willing to carry our child and the clinic had said that the surrogate will have no effect on the DNA of our child.
    The child will be off my and my husband DNA.
    BioTexCom is the perfect clinic for surrogacy i guess from the reviews of its clients.
    You should also visit BioTexCom for surrogacy method.
    I also contacted some surrogates who are willing to carry someone's child in their womb.
    Now we are looking for a perfect surrogate to carry our child in her womb.
    I also met some mothers raising babies from surrogacy procedure.
    I have contacted many surrogacy related clinics and had gathered a lot of information regarding this process.
    I guess someone here will also be going to surrogacy and will guide us.

  10. LonieKot2 months ago

    You are right.Infertility is not a small thing.Many people are sad because of it.We are settled in Japan from last few decades.Surrogacy is a method of raising a baby from someone's else egg. I was amazed at this method but when i studied about it i was happy.Here in Japan it is totally prohibited.So we moved to Europe and roamed in Europe for sometime and contacted many clinics there,
    I had hysterectomy cancer. All of you should know its treatment and its result.As a result i was cancer free but for the lifetime i'm infertile now.So i was worried and tensed and than my husband came to know about surrogacy.Than we heard about BioTexCom and we moved to Ukraine. It is a very good clinic and we consulted them.
    They are the best they have best solution for us now.
    Then we found a surrogate mom and we donated the eggs and now surrogate is carrying our twin daughters. Now when i sit alone i thank god that he is giving us two gifts in one time. We are so happy and excited to have our babies.
    Please share your stories with me.

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