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Infertility and surrogacy

Hello ladies. I want some help from you. I am really tensed about my health condition. I am 33 years old. My problem is that I cannot conceive naturally. Because doctor recognized me of heart disease. I am going to consult a clinic in Ukraine for my infertility issue.
I saw very positive reviews about surrogacy or IVF. So decided to consult the specialized doctors of clinic about my pregnancy issues. I want to discuss with doctors whether I should go for IVF or surrogacy? What are your opinions regarding this? Please give me your sincere suggestions. Because it might be possible that my decision depends upon your suggestions.
All comments are welcomed. Thanks.

  1. ella2322 months ago

    I am really sorry to hear about your issue. I know its hard when you cant conceive naturally. It destroys you. Please don't give up. Be strong. You'll have the success I know. I would suggest you do your research. Don't do anything too fast. Be calm and don't stress your self out. Biotexcom is a good place heard a lot about it. I hope things will work out for you. I would be waiting to hear more good news soon. I wish you good luck. Take care.

  2. Manon2 months ago

    Hi! Emily. Sorry to hear about your health. As a mother with the same problem, I can feel your pain. But it is a positive thing that you are going to defeat your infertility. IVF is a good thing. When I was facing these problems, I got suggestions from friends, doctors and from many other forums. in the end, I was at the point that the surrogacy is much better than the IVF. Due to the much chances of IVF failures, I prefer surrogacy over IVF. And I am Happy to announce that I got a baby by surrogacy. I helped me a lot. I also went to Ukraine for this. So I also suggest you apply for surrogacy. My all best wishes to you. God bless you.

  3. jolly1882 months ago

    Hi dear. I feel really sad for you. I know and I can feel the pain and the hardships you are going through. But these are all natural no one can do anything regarding them. You have to be strong enough and have to face all the hardships very bravely. I am happy for you that you have chosen an alternative instead of being sad and feeling hopeless. I would rather suggest you to go for surrogacy. Surrogacy is much better than the IVF. I have also faced all these circumstances. Me and my husband both were infertile and it was literally impossible for us to have a baby. But then we found out a clinic in Ukraine that offered surrogacy. I have done a lot of research on this and found it to be the best remedy for couples like us to have a baby. It is one of the best and safest method to have a baby with the most guaranteed results.You just have to donate your eggs which are then placed in a surrogate mother who conceives the baby for you. This makes this method the most safest and best from all the other methods available so far. So I will recommend you to for for surrogacy rather than the IVF. I wish you best of luck for your future and all my best wishes are with you.

  4. Julie882 months ago

    Hi dear. I know it must be hard time for you. Stand upright. Don't be upset. Surrogacy will fulfill all your dreams as it did mine. The clinics in Ukraine offers quite good services. The expenditure is very low as compared to other hospitals. You must give surrogacy a try. I hope you get desired results from it. Sending my prayers and support for you.

  5. BellaJones2 months ago

    Hey there Emily. Glad to hear from you. How are things going? I hope they are great. I am really sorry to hear about your problem. I know how hard it must be. I have faced a similar issue. I know the feeling. It must be a hard decision. It was for me too. However, the clinic you are referring to is good. I have heard about it too. I think you should go for it. I wish you good luck. Take care.

  6. melissastan2 months ago

    Hi, Emily. How are you doing? See we cannot just decide what procedure would be better. It really depends on your condition. Now I'm not a doctor, but I think I cant figure something out here. Since you have a heart condition it might be difficult for you to carry a child. Even if you get pregnant, it can be risky for the baby and you yourself. So I think surrogacy would be the answer here. But before taking a decision do talk to your doctor about this. There a great clinic in Ukraine that you could go to. It's reliable. It's also very affordable. Good luck. I really hope this helped. Let us know what you decide.

  7. Emily1232 months ago

    HI Emily! Sorry to hear your story. Infertility can be very hard emotionally and physically.
    I am glad you have not given up hope. It's good that you are thinking of going or either IVF or surrogacy. I will try to help you out as best as I could since I have gone through both procedures. If you are considering going to IVF than first of all I would recommend you get yourself proper medical diagnoses because in most cases IVF is only successful if the mother has a healthy uterus. I had gone through 2 IVF both ending in Miscarriages after 3 months. Surrogacy was the only option left for me. However, I believe the women should go through with the stages of pregnancy so I would recommend you try IVF if you are healthy. But even if IVF is unsuccessful surrogacy is still an option you can go for and clinics in Ukraine provide the best services. I also went to a clinic in Ukraine for my surrogacy procedures. I hope I was of help to you take care

  8. Alana902 months ago

    Hey! sad to hear your story! I know how it feels about being not able to conceive. It's a just heart-wrenching moment for each woman. May each woman get the strength to get through all this.
    I am in the same boat as you are. But let me tell you this need so much patience and strength to face each odd that life throws on you after being declared as an infertile person.
    I used to quiet active on such forums. Hoping to see more success stories and to encourage women who are having tough times.
    But let me tell you one thing that I am much inspired by the women's over here. They are so sure about their decisions and yes the place you are talking about seems to be most preferable for such treatments.
    And either IVF or surrogacy both are worth adopting procedures. As of in your case I have observed many women going for surrogacy procedure.
    And it has proved to be equally effective.
    Good luck with whatever your selection would be.

  9. diana_mom2 months ago

    Hey Dear. You don't have to worry so much about it. There are many well-known clinics for surrogacy. According to my point of view, surrogacy is the optimal and most reasonable choice for you. I can understand the circumstances you are going through. You really need to make an appointment to some fertility specialist. I have also experienced similar torment. I am from Japan. I got infertile due to an accident. I can't deliver a child because of weakness in the womb. Hence, I came to know about surrogacy. After research, I found a prominent clinic in Uk. They are offering surrogacy treatment at economic packages. They provided us a very sound surrogate mother. Finally, we got success this time. Presently I am the mother of a sound infant kid. Wish you good luck.

  10. Jane Drake2 months ago

    Honey, you can choose either option. It's good that you decided to consult a doctor. I am sorry to hear about your heart. What exactly is wrong? I mean if there is something serious then I dont think you should consider IVF. The procedure is very draining. It can take away all your energy. God forbid, you face severe heart issue, then it can be fatal too. I would suggest you consider surrogacy. I mean think yourself. If you get pregnant by IVF then there can be complications. The labor can be painful and complicated. The child can inherit the disease. It is better to be careful. Go for Surrogacy and get a baby.

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