Is it possible to stop feeling this awful?

Hello people. I am finding it hard to cope. I lost my baby. I was 28 weeks pregnant. I don't know how it happened. Maybe it was carelessness on my part. Either way, I feel just so awful. It was going to a girl. I had picked out a name. Had started shopping for her. I don't have the strength to try again. What do I do? How do you get past this? Is it possible to stop feeling this awful? This incompetent?

  1. Tiffanysmith11 year ago

    I am so sorry for what you are going through. But yes you will get through it. I know it's a big loss for you. 28 weeks pregnant and then losing everything. It's so hard to see everything fall apart in front of you. Do things that make you happy. And divert your mind from this. Stay positive and strong.

  2. Tiffanysmith11 year ago

    Hey Nica! I m really sorry for your loss. I know how hard this is for you. But don't worry. You can get over this. Things like this are a part of life. You can try to avoid them. But if they happen you can't just sit and cry over them your whole life. Somethings in our life are not in our hand. These things make you strong. Don't think about it much. Just think about your next baby. Think about the good days you will spend with him. This baby will live forever in your heart. You will regain your strength.

  3. DiannaViktor1 year ago

    Hi Nica! I know it's really difficult to get out of a loss. I know how these MCs are! I myself have been through it twice. I'm really sorry for you. Well, you can still have a child. Don't get depressed! I know it's not easy but still, you can try! So, yeah! Well, I'm also a TTC for years. But, I'm still trying different ways. Now, I've even opted for an IVF at a repro center in Ukraine. You can still try! There are still chances out there. You shouldn't leave home. Stay blessed! xx

  4. callisy11 months ago

    I am sorry for the loss. And yes you can walk out of that feeling. I have lost a baby before. So I know what it feels like. It is so painful. But you will not get stuck like that fir the rest of your life. You have to move on. Try and get another child. Crying yourself silly will not bring the child back to life. I can remember in my case I met back to my clinic in Bio texcom. They were of much help. I am now coping up well even looking to have my another child. The only thing that matters now is finding strength to start all over again. You can take a break from work so as to relieve the pain. Maybe go on a vacation with your special one so as to forget that you are going through a loss. I believe with time everything is going ton be okay.

  5. melissastan8 months ago

    Hey. So sorry to hear about your miscarriage. Please don't blame yourself for it. Sometimes, miscarriages take place, and it's not your fault. You need to give yourself some time to deal with it. It's not a good time to TTC for another baby. You will be fine soon. Good luck.

  6. Lilyj8 months ago

    oh my.. You must have been so sad. I am sorry for your loss. It is beyond words. But do not lose hope. It is not end of the world. You can try again. Do you know why you lost the baby? You should be careful with your next. I do not mean you were not careful already. But it would be better to understand what happened and why it happened. This way you would be better prepared for everything. It was not your fault. Just stay strong. I am sure you will have another chance. Sending you prayers and love. Keep us updated.

  7. MirandaD7 months ago

    I am extremely sorry to hear about your loss. This must have been extremely difficult for you. However, my advice to you would be to not lose hope. Bad things do happen but we shouldnt let them affect us. I would suggest you start by looking into procedures for yourself. For the treatments make sure to visit the right doctor. Good luck to you. I hope things go well for you.

  8. Juliet392 weeks ago

    I am really sorry for your loss. I can understand how hard this must be for you. However, don't lose hope. Just think on the positive side. I would suggest visit a good doctor for your process. Someone who is well equipped and knows how to carry the process out. Good luck to you.

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