my friend needs your help

i have a friend who seems to be shy. she has given me something to share out here. this is what my friend says " since 2014, we have been trying to conceive using the natural method. though we decided to enjoy every moment of the intimacy, we have not seen any fruits. my husband is always cross when i try to ask him about his fertility life. he claims he has some other children with other women. however, in the month of February 2017, it took a lot of courage for all of us to go for a check up. it was found out that my husband nolonger produced sperms. his case was one severe strand of azoospermia which could have been caused by an sti. he has been devastated but i encourage him. we need to have a baby of our own. one of the local infertility experts advice us that we take IVF though it is not possible in our country"

  1. joycee1 year ago

    I am very encouraged and touched in equal measure. It is always important to share such an information on a forum such as this so that many people can get the right treatment. In a forum like this, you end up getting what you have always deserved. I vividly recall I had a problem like that and my hubby was very hopeless. We had to traverse up and down across the hills that bordered our home. No clinic was giving us the right treatment. It was long journey to fertility but when time was ripe, we found the right course. I struggled till i got the right direction. I was ultimately directed to BioTex clinic in Ukraine for sperm donation. You can dearly motivate her husband for the same.

  2. Shanon 1 year ago

    Good day, it's good that your friend chose this forum to discuss her problems. The well aware and experienced members are always there to give advice. As suggested before, in my opinion, you should go to Ukraine Kiev. Discuss your problems and issues via email with the clinic. They would surely guide you that what procedures and measures one should take. Now the technology is very advanced and, lots of options are available.

  3. Aundrea1 year ago

    Yes. IVF would be the best option in this case. My SIL and her husband went for IVF treatment to Ukraine. I think they got treated at the same clinic the other lady is talking about. It was a success and they have a baby boy now. You should tell your friend to go to Ukraine. I've also heard that they offer very good economical packages. Oh, and IVF and Surrogacy are completely legal in Ukraine.

  4. Mia85111 months ago

    Hi Hellen. I am sorry to hear this. Have they consulted a fertility specialist? Maybe there is some way to bring up his sperm count again. Ask them not to lose hope. I hope they manage to conceive soon. Fingers crossed!

  5. hannahperk11 months ago

    Well it's good thought from you. I really liked it. You encouraged your husband for a good thing and this is really great. Yes IVF is also good. If you got to use it then don't hesitate. Just use it. It's going to be good for you as well.

  6. Hannah.David8 months ago

    If your husband is no longer producing sperms then I am sure there are a lot more treatments to consider. The clinic that I am visiting for surrogacy do even talk about the male issues. If the sperm is of low quality they basically have to ensure that it is not that way. For which they provide the male person with medicines. You can consider going for male sperm donors. However, I think the clinic I am visiting if they provide one with that facility. You should research it definitely. As you're producing good quality eggs and have a perfect uterus the treatment will work.

  7. LonieKot8 months ago

    Ask your friend to not feel shy.Here everybody is to share some issue like that.There is no need to be shy here.These forums are basically for us to share our issues.
    I was also infertile due to cancer.Than we moved to Ukraine from Europe to find a good clinic regarding surrogacy.
    Surrogacy was the best option for us.So we contacted BioTexCom clinic and the clinic helped us find a good surrogate>Now she is pregnant with out two daughters.We are so happy.BioTexCom is very good clinic regarding surrogacy.

  8. Sara Taylor8 months ago

    Lots of hugs for your friend. She is shy still she is a brave woman. I think she is a sensible lady. That is why she is supporting her husband. It is not his fault. It is something that has done by nature. Luckily they have found the solution. They should go for IVF. it is a safe procedure. There are many couples blessed with the baby after IVF. She should be strong now. I think it is necessary to choose a reliable clinic. A clinic with high success rates. has got high success rate. Your friend should go to Ukraine. They have got a professional staff. Moreover, they provide with the number of attempts. It will definitely bring something happening for her. All the best wishes to her.

  9. DiannaViktor8 months ago

    Hi Helen...I read your whole post. I need you to be strong right now! Well, yes! I know how hard it is...I just think an IVF would be an answer for you. You're right! I'm also having an IVF this June from the support of a clinical support at a center in Ukraine. I hope you find a way to have a child. xx

  10. rebecca128 months ago

    Hey there Hellen! I hope you're doing good. I'm glad to know that you're such a helping friend. A friend in need is a friend indeed! I'm very sorry for your friend's situation. It's good that you talked her out on this forum. Everyone is very supportive and will give the best advises ever. So, let me tell you my story. I was declared infertile and that was the most terrible phase of my life. My husband encouraged us to go for an IVF. It is basically when your egg and your husband's sperm will be fertilized outside the body and will then be injected into your uterus. Now, as your husband can't produce sperms, you'll have to get a sperm donor. Then after the transfer, it feels like a natural pregnancy. You should definitely go for it. Good luck!

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