Need a advice

Hey there, how are you all? I hope you all are doing great. This forum looks great. Everyone is helping each other. Since I am new here and don't know how to ask for help. I am infertile and can't conceive a baby naturally. I have two options left for me. One is the adoption and the other is surrogacy. My partner is thinking about adoption but I don't want to raise someone else's baby. I know some of you have faced a similar situation and I need help. What should I do convince my partner? I would be very thankful. Surrogacy is a great choice but my partner has some doubts. Thanks and hoping best replies.

  1. Lexi Bauer10 months ago

    Hey Kelly, hope youre doing good. Im sorry to hear that. Id like to say that dont lose hope. You must stay prepared for everything. Let me tell you that this journey is going to be a bumpy ride. Thats why you must stay strong. Now coming to your question, i would suggest surrogacy. Adoption is indeed nobel. But it has a lot of complications. You will have to go through a lot of formalities. You will have to wait MONTHS for finding a match. Most likely you will get rejected. They eligibility criteria for adoption is very strict. Surrogacy is a little pricey as compared to adoption. But it is hassle free and you can have a somewhat biological child.

  2. Leslie Hanson10 months ago

    Hey! How are you doing? Well. You're not wrong to feel that way. A lot of people think like this when it comes to adoption. It really isn't everyone's cup of tea. I think you'd do well with surrogacy. Not only does it give you your own baby, but it also is about just the same in cost as adoption. There shouldn't be a conflict because of that now. I think you'd do best to convince your husband by showing him some good clinic. Once he sees the procedure details, he'll be more inclined to go with that. I really hope everything works out. Good luck. And take care!!

  3. olivia2910 months ago

    Hello there. This forum has some amazing posts regarding surrogacy, or just related to infertility. There are some posts which can be very helpful too. At least i found some that were helpful. I personally think that adoption is a really good thing to go for. Raising a kid and calling it your own is a beautiful thing to do. But if you think of going for surrogacy that is a good option too. As you will have your own child. I have been through infertility. And i completely understand your situation. I had been diagnosed with pelvic inflammatory disease, due to which i could not get pregnant. I was so devastated, but then my doctor told me about surrogacy. I had been struggling through infertility. So surrogacy was the best option for me, or at least that is what i think. The clinic i contacted was very good, and they knew what they were doing. they helped me out through everything. So, you should first contact couples who have been through surrogacy, and even pay them a visit, if you can. Bets of luck .

  4. Julietrocks10 months ago

    Adoption involves many risks as compare to surrogacy! You should go for it! The best part of surrogacy is that you are sure about it that it's your child! In my case, I scare of adoption! But that doesn't mean adoption is bad or something! The clinic is very famous in Ukraine! I would say you to consult them! They are the best advisors! I wish you all the best!

  5. Hannah.David10 months ago

    Hey, I hope you are doing well. I think this for you might be a very confusing point. Just know that there are certain things that you should keep in mind. Firstly, there is a common misconception that surrogacy is more expensive! This isn't true at all! Both of them roughly will cost you the same. Secondly, both the procedures are very lengthy. Adoption involves a lot of paperwork and in surrogacy, there is a whole process. The only major difference between the two is that in surrogacy the child will be genetically linked to you. Also, he/she will be yours since the newborn stage. So this would mean you would be able to experience all the child's stages. Good luck to you! I hope I was able to help. I myself have opted for surrogacy due to personal choices. Do tell us about your decision.

  6. Kimkardis10 months ago

    Hello dear, I hope you are in good health.just feel relax and calm. I know how it feels to become infertile. Being not able to conceive is the very frustrating situation for someone. It shakes the faith of someone like me and you. I remembered the day when I was struggling to get pregnant. But after two years of struggle, I took help of surrogacy. There is nothing bad in this procedure. Surrogacy and adoption both very benefits to overcome infertility. Surrogacy is a great option but there is also nothing bad for adoption. That all depends on someone. Either you want adoption or surrogacy. For you, I think you should go for surrogacy. I know mostly gave many doubt in the beginning but this treatment has blessed many couples. There are many stories have shared on different Forum. And there are also many success videos of surrogacy available on youtube. Even the clinic which I had opted for is making a strong step for surrogacy. I hope your all doubts will remove soon.

  7. katti10 months ago

    Oh, I am sorry about your infertility. Infertility is surely a curse. I can understand your situation and concerns. My husband and I had a similar debate. I also wanted to go for surrogacy because I wanted to have a biological child. As an adopted child, I had faced the worst behavior of my parents. They always wanted to have a biological heir. They dropped down their frustration over me. It made me so disturbed that I don't feel it right to adopt a child now. Thankfully my husband agreed to try surrogacy. You can also convince your husband by emphasizing the fact that you can have a biological link with the child this way. Stress upon the fact that you want to have a biological child. Try to convince him by sharing success stories of surrogacy. I really hope that you succeed in convincing him. I wish you all the best.

  8. Ciera Renner10 months ago

    Hey honey. How are you doing? I hope you're well. I know these processes are different. But I recommend going for surrogacy. Mainly because it's something that gives you the ability. To call the child your own. In adoption, you can't do that. Genetic linkage is made when your embryos would be placed in the surrogate mother. This can lead to being the child completely yours. Adoption would be a headache. Costs the same. And is going to deprive you of the early childhood stages. So there's that. I hope you can make up your mind.

  9. Hailey2910 months ago

    Hello! How is it with you? Well. You're not wrong to feel that way. Many individuals think of this with regards to reception. It truly isn't for everyone. I think you'd do well with surrogacy. Not exclusively does it give you your own infant, yet it additionally is about simply the same in cost as adoption. There shouldn't be a contention on account of that now. I think you'd do best to persuade your better half by demonstrating to him some great center. When he sees the strategy points of interest, he'll be more disposed to run with that. I truly hope everything works out. Good fortunes. And take care!

  10. DiannaViktor10 months ago

    I understand dear. How you feel it! I know how it's like. Well, yes! You're just right with your choice. I think it's fine to go that way. You can still become a mother that way. I've seen so many women going that right. It's just fine. It's a wonderful procedure to go with. Last year, my own cousin sister had her procedure for it abroad. After that, she was blessed with a lovely baby. It really helped the couple in completing their lives. Now, they are living happily than ever. Surely, you both should come to this single point! I hope he understands.

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