Need a advice

Hey there, how are you all? I hope you all are doing great. This forum looks great. Everyone is helping each other. Since I am new here and don't know how to ask for help. I am infertile and can't conceive a baby naturally. I have two options left for me. One is the adoption and the other is surrogacy. My partner is thinking about adoption but I don't want to raise someone else's baby. I know some of you have faced a similar situation and I need help. What should I do convince my partner? I would be very thankful. Surrogacy is a great choice but my partner has some doubts. Thanks and hoping best replies.

  1. jenny5888 months ago

    You should talk to your husband about it. Tell him how do you feel. And tell him that you want a baby who is biologically linked to you. Talk to him politely and he will understand. But be sure to choose a good clinic for this purpose. There are spams like Adonis and Lotus. Make sure you stay away from them. Good luck to you.

  2. Katherinejay8 months ago

    Hello. I hope you are doing fine. i'm sorry about your infertility. I can totally understand your concern. This might be very confusing for you. Plus you seems so indecisive. I would say that both adoption and surrogacy are the best options for infertile couple. Adopting a kid is such a great feeling. Adopting an orphan and raising him/her as your own child is beautiful thing to do. But if you really want your own biological child, opt for surrogacy. Because adopted child will be non-biological to you. So I would highly recommend you to go for surrogacy. Indeed, surrogacy is a blessing. Plus this process is just like a normal pregnancy. You will have a great experience. Both have almost same expenses. So surrogacy won't be a problematic thing for you. Go for it. And keep updating us. Lots of love to you.

  3. Jasmine228 months ago

    Hello Kelly! I hope you're doing fine dear. I am sorry to hear about your infertility. It makes woman sad to even think about it that she can't conceive her baby. I can feel that pain inside you as I am infertile too. I am trying to conceive from last 7 years but recently my doctor has suggested me to go for surrogacy and told me that I can't conceive natut=raaly. This is good to think about it before making any final decision and that's what you are doing good by asking and sharing with others. Dear, I would like to suggest you go for surrogacy. I had doubt on it before but now it is all clear and I can recommend you this. Ask your partner to don't worry about that because it is one of the safe ways to have your own baby. Go for it from a well-known clinic. I am also planning for it with my husband soon from a clinic. May God bless you, dear. Tc!

  4. Alicemoon8 months ago

    Hey, sweetie! Hope you are doing well. Surrogacy and adoption are both great options. However, a surrogate child is better. It has your genes. There is no risk of genetic diseases as well. You will feel more connected to the baby as well. I hope you make the right decision. However, I have a helpful advice for you. I have read many negative reviews about Adonis clinic here. A lot of people complain about them. Please if you choose any treatment. Make sure it isn't with them. Do not register with them as they are not professional at all. I want you to have a safe journey. Good luck!

  5. Katty888 months ago

    Hi! How are you doing? Hope you are well! I will not suggest you adoption! You should convince your husband for surrogacy! I have never seen a better option than this for infertile couples! A clinic in Ukraine is providing better services for this! Good luck to you!

  6. Katy4588 months ago

    I am sad to know about you.I suggest surrogacy to born baby.But must confirm about clinic.Because there is some scammer in the field of surrogacy.So must care full from these.
    I am suffering from infertility.Due to this i do not born baby.Me and my husband want baby to complete family.So finally we contact with Lotus for surrogacy.Everything will be done.We paid advance money for treatment also.But we reached there for surrogacy we really disappointed,This was really sad moment for us.They cheated us for money.They wasted our time money.They have low experience medical team.People must know about these type of surrogacy clinic and be aware of them.

  7. rebecca128 months ago

    Surrogacy is definitely a better option than adoption. When the mother is having second thoughts about raising someone else's baby, then it surely can't happen and shouldn't be done. You would be making the child's life miserable. I'd suggest, make your husband read all the success stories of couples through surrogacy. They are so inspiring and emotional, your husband will surely be convinced. After all, who doesn't want a child with his own genetics? Good luck!

  8. Eliza228 months ago

    Hello, how are you? I hope you are doing well. I have read your post carefully. I wish you all the best for whichever choice you make. I am certain that one way or another you will achieve what you truly desire. Motherhood is a beautiful journey. You can choose surrogacy if you listen to me. I am sure you will get to experience it in its true essence. I have been TTC for over 8 years in the past. I was 28 when I had my first son. After that, I could not conceive. I am 38 years old right now. So my doctor suggested me not to conceive again. Right now, I have been given the option of surrogacy. I am having it done successfully at a very promising clinic. Wish me luck!

  9. Amelia Char8 months ago

    Hey there, how are you? I hope you are doing fine. I am really sorry about your past. It is a wish of every woman to have its own baby. Infertility is a sick disease. It has destroyed so many lives. I am also a victim of infertility. I met an accident where my fallopian tubes got badly damaged. Well, you are in the right place. If you are looking for advice, I would like to suggest you go for surrogacy. Surrogacy is a better option than adoption. Surrogacy has a biological link as well. There are lots of good clinics in Ukraine. I hope this would help you.

  10. Sarahxyz8 months ago

    I suggest surrogacy is best for you.Surrogacy and IVF is the only to born baby for infertile people.But confirm about clinic before surrogacy.Because there is some scammer in the field of surrogacy.
    I am telling you about the story of my cousin.She is infertile due to this she can't born baby.Surrogacy is the best way for her to born baby.So she decided to go for surrogacy.She contact with Lotus for surrogacy.When she reached there then no body care her.This was really hard moment.She lost her baby.Lotus is just a scam .People must know about these type of clinic who work for money only.

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