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surrogacy #2

Hey guys! So I've been thinking to apply for surrogacy again. I'm quite confused right now. I had my first son through surrogacy as I can't have a baby myself. I've already talked to this lady at the clinic I'm opting for and she assured me that there is no rush and that I can contact them whenever I make my mind. She answered all my questions and cleared all my confusion. The only thing I'm confused about right now is, is it too early? My son is only a year old.

  1. kimberlyjames6 months ago

    Hi. It could be a little early. You shouldn't go for something if you are not 100% ready for it. If you are worried about your biological clock then there is nothing to worry about. You can freeze your eggs right now and use them later. They can also be used for surrogacy. I hope my answer helps you.

  2. melissastan6 months ago

    Hey Kimberly. I hope you are well. Thank you so much for commenting here. I really appreciate the advice. This is actually a very good idea. I can consider freezing my eggs. That way I won't have to have a baby right away. I'm definitely going to discuss this with my husband.

  3. Hannah.David6 months ago

    I personally think this is a perfect time. Since he is one year old by the time his sibling will be in the world he will be old enough and would want a younger brother or sister to play with. I really like how this clinic never enforces things on you. Even initially when I decided to opt for surrogacy I was really confused! So when they invited me to my first free consultation meeting all my queries were welcomed. Even when I in the very beginning emailed them, all my questions were answered. An in-depth analysis was given on anything. I really like how they put the effort in this. They make sure that the client isnt confused about anything. They also reply very quickly which is very rare to find in the clinic. I also like the variety in packages they offer. The clinic is there to help everyone. Good luck to you. I hope you are soon able to make a decision. Do keep us updated.

  4. melissastan5 months ago

    Hey, Hannah. Thank you for reading my post and giving me this piece of advice. I really appreciate it. I'm definitely going to consider this. I'm glad your experience with this place was good. I'm still thinking about what to do but I will make a decision soon. I will update everyone here when I do. Thank you again.

  5. Lilyj5 months ago

    Hey Hannah. Hope you guys are doing fine. I am so happy for you that you have opted for surrogacy in the past and are considering I again. I don't think it is too early. By the time you have your second baby, your son will be at least years old. Also, I have heard that a lot of these clinics have extended their procedure. So think about it from every aspect.

  6. melissastan5 months ago

    Hello Lily. Thanks for the comment. You are right. It would at least be a year for baby #2 to be here. My son would be 2 years old then. So I think that's old enough. I hope it goes well for us. I'll keep you guys updated on this. Remember me in your prayers.

  7. MirandaD4 months ago

    Surrogacy procedure takes a lot of time. Therefore, I don't think you should be worried about that. The clinic will first have you in the waiting list. After this you will be called for the consultation and then your employee process will start. Meanwhile, the surrogate will also be matched. So all of this is actually going to take time. Even after this, you will have to wait for a further 9 months. So during all of this time, your first will actually grow up. I guess this is the right time to grow your family. I would suggest that you and your husband really talk through this. After properly thinking then only opt for the process. Good luck to you. Sending baby dust your way. I hope things go well for you. Do keep us updated.

  8. kimberlyjames4 months ago

    Hi, Melissa. How are you? Just checking in on what's going on with you. Did you talk to your husband about freezing eggs as you told me? or did you decide to go for surrogacy right away? Do let me know on what you guys decide on doing about this. I wish you all the luck in the world.

  9. VanessaStan4 months ago

    Hey there Melissa! It really depends on you hon. When you will have more children it means more responsibility and before that it's important that you know about all the important things. But, register for it right now because the process takes a lot of time. The waiting list is quite long. I m also having my treatment at this clinic abroad. I was really on the edge of giving up but they helped me with clearing up my mind. This clinic also offers a guarantee program so you don't even have to worry about anything. I m in the middle of my treatment. Everything is great so far and i hope everything will work out. If you go for it now then maybe we could even be surrogacy buddies. Just make sure that you are 100% ready before you go for anything. Stay blessed! Good Luck!

  10. Lillianhon3 months ago

    Hi Melissa! I hope you are well. I think this is the right time for you. Your both babies will be able to grow up together. He will be there to protect his little baby boy or girl. You will be able to relax after that once and for all. You should opt for the program now because the waiting lines are so long. The time you get your date, you will be totally ready. The clinic you are opting for is where i started my IVF right now. The doctors are experienced and my sister also had her surrogacy there so i m positive about my treatment's success. I hope things work out for you. Good Luck. Stay blessed. Sending baby dust your way.

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