This post is essentially about my experience with surrogacy. If this interests you, or if youre looking for resources to research it yourself, please go through it. I was diagnosed with PCOS in my teenage years and so it wasnt shocking to me when I failed to have kids with my husband years later. We were prepared for failure but not to the level that was in store for us. I initially went into hormone therapy and that was a complete failure. I was disappointed but not disheartened. After failing with my consequetive IVF attempts, however, I was devastated. My husband was there for me, but unfortuantely that wasnt enough for me to recover mentally. I had to go into therapy and that slowly but surely got me back into a healthy headspace. All the while, my loving husband continued the search for other options that would prove viable for us and right around the time I had recovered from the trauma, he presented me with the option of surrogacy. It was the perfect chance for me to test out the fruits of my recovery. And it worked out better than I couldve hoped for. I now have a beautiful baby boy and honestly, I am glad i have someone like my husband. Without him I wouldve never imagined to be this happy. I hope you guys find your happiness as well. Cheers!

  1. Sofia19941 year ago

    Hello Christane!
    From my first marriage i had many complications regarding pregnancy.
    Like i was facing miscarriage every time i conceived.I conceived 3 times but had miscarriage thrice.
    Now i'm 43 years old and i am married to another man and we both want babies of our own.
    I know at this age it is quite difficult to have babies of my own womb.
    Keeping in mind all the complications regarding pregnancy now i think i should go for some other option to have children.
    So i have persuaded my husband to go for surrogacy to have our own children.
    He has agreed for surrogacy so i started looking for clinics with good surrogacy records.
    I have founded many clinics regarding the surrogacy method but i think that BioTexCom is the best clinic regarding surrogacy method.
    I contacted with them and asked them many questions and every aspect about surrogacy and they replied to every question of mine.
    From their satisfied answers i guess the BIoTexCom is the best solution for having a baby via surrogacy.
    So i suggest that you people should also do your own research regarding surrogacy and should contact BioTexCom for further details.
    But i'm worried about many other aspects like my behaviour towards the baby after knowing everything.
    Like when the baby grows up what i should tell him/her.
    But now i don't have any other options left so far so surrogacy is the only solution to my problems i guess.
    If someone is raising a baby from surrogacy method please share your experience with us so we can learn something from your experiences.

  2. melissastan1 year ago

    Surrogacy is a great option for all those people who can't get pregnant. I, myself, had my son through surrogacy. God bless the doctors at the clinic that helped me have a baby that had me and my husbands genes. My boy is just perfect. He is very healthy. After years of disappointments and bad news, I was finally able to feel the joy of being a mother. Very thankful for my husband for always being there for me. we found our happiness. I wish other people who are still facing troubles give this idea a try.

  3. Boone1 year ago

    I am really happy after reading your story. It's really encouraging for me. I ma suffering from same thing. The doctors also told me about surrogacy. I don't know what to do about it. I don't know how to handle it. I am really worried about it. Like you said your condition was. Mine was nothing change than that. I am also feeling same things. I always feel like I am gone somewhere. All of my thoughts are crappy these days. I have nothing to do. I also wish that like your story is matching with me. I hope end matches too for me as well. Because I am very much worried these days about my situation. At this time your story is like a healing thing for me. I am hoping and hoping and hoping dear.

  4. Jasmine221 year ago

    By reading your story i started believing that every couple who want to have a baby can get it. Your story is very inspiring and informative. It will give lot of information to young couples, those facing infertility issues. I faced this issue for almost 7 years, recently i decided to have a baby through surrogacy. It's going great and i am exploring many good things that i used to think bad about them. I am Very thankful for my husband for always being there for me in this process. we found our happiness. I wish other people who are still facing this problem get good results. I am really happy after reading your story, you are inspirations to others. It's really encouraging for me. I want to know more about this. Because i recently had a visit they were forcing me to stay in hospital. They were showing care but i want to know can i stay out of clinic. Because some of my friends wants me live with them.

  5. Ada1 year ago

    christane I read your post and feel really disheartening for you. When you said that you have gone through this it hurt me a lot. It means surrogacy suits you. I am also looking for this treatment. But due to some reason, I don’t have yet. The basic reason is my husband’s consent. From which clinic you have availed this opportunity.? I was also looking and some lady suggests me three places where we may have surrogacy. Those were South Africa, India, Ukraine. She also experienced and she shared one of the clinic's links to me. It was a clinic in Ukraine. Their economy packages were manageable. High qualified staff and well-established laboratories. The most astonishing thing was experienced and qualified doctors from several countries. I keep on convincing my husband for this clinic but he is saying that we should investigate them thoroughly. Then we will think about it. So what your suggestion about this clinic??? Need your sincere suggestions. Not from you but all ladies who are on this forum.

  6. Scarlett Hale1 year ago

    I am glad after reading your post. All is well that ends well. Congratulations on your success.
    You are one of the blessed ones. You DH is a nice person. Having a supportive partner is a great blessing. I am also searching these days. Your post has helped me a lot on my way of searching. As I am afraid of being infertile because of the endometriosis. I hope it will help more people. Stay blessed.

  7. ConstanceMorin1 year ago

    Hey, there hon! Surrogacy is the best option for all people who can't carry their child or can't get pregnant. You have been through a lot. But still stayed strong. Never lost hope. That's amazing. Congratulations to you for your baby boy. I m glad to see that your husband is very supportive and loving. You are lucky to have such a husband. I also had surrogacy, there's a clinic in Ukraine where I had my surrogacy. I tried for like 5 years but still failed, Tried everything but nothing worked for me. But my family and partner were always there for me, no matter what. My sister told me to go for surrogacy. She showed me a video of some clinic in Ukraine. At first, i was like this is not possible but when I went there for surrogacy. Everything changed. They cleared my all doubts and brought me back to light. Thanks to them now I have two beautiful babies. So the thing here is to not give up and keep trying. Much Love!

  8. JovitaAmador1 year ago

    Hi all.Congrats lady.finally you get success with surrogacy.I am also searching for my infertility cure.Now I get it.It really gives me strength and hope.still, I had an option of surrogacy.I am much relaxing after this.I was at the age of 26.I am trying to conceive for last 2 years with no luck.I found always find the negative result.I was too much in frustration and upset.My sister and I get married on the same day.She was now the mother of a beautiful daughter.and I am still trying.My husband's relationship with me is good but now it's going to be sad day by day.I am in double trouble.My life is too hard there is no contentment.I just want the baby in every condition.after knowing about surrogacy I decided to go through with this option.Hope my journey is also successful and positive as like you.

  9. Sofia19941 year ago

    Now i am married for the second time and i guess surrogaay is the last option for me now.
    I always had complications in my first marriage regarding pregnancy.
    Everytime i conceived i resulted in miscarriage.
    So i gave up on the idea of getting pregnant again,
    So i contacted a clinic BioTexCom regarding surrogacy.
    They guided me in a very positive way.
    They will arrange a surrogate for our baby and let us have a baby of our biological DNA in sometime.
    I guess you should also contact BioTexCom regarding your issue.
    If you want to have a look at the clinic BioTexCom.
    Wishing you good luck with your issue.

  10. afzalsumaira1 year ago

    I am sad to hear about what happened to you initially. However, I am also happy to hear that you recovered. You are lucky to have a husband like that. He obviously loves you very much.My experience with surrogacy was pretty much similar. I had to get my uterus removed due to cysts. I became very sad and depressed throughout after that. Luckily I had my husband with me. He was always there for me no matter what. He kept me together. Eventually we started to find other ways to conceive. Eventually we settled on surrogacy. I got recommended a clinic in Ukraine from a friend. We went there and despite being a little overcrowded the experience was good. The doctors were really nice and the surrogate they found for us was really good. I am happy surrogacy became a source of happiness for you. As it did for me.

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