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This post is essentially about my experience with surrogacy. If this interests you, or if youre looking for resources to research it yourself, please go through it. I was diagnosed with PCOS in my teenage years and so it wasnt shocking to me when I failed to have kids with my husband years later. We were prepared for failure but not to the level that was in store for us. I initially went into hormone therapy and that was a complete failure. I was disappointed but not disheartened. After failing with my consequetive IVF attempts, however, I was devastated. My husband was there for me, but unfortuantely that wasnt enough for me to recover mentally. I had to go into therapy and that slowly but surely got me back into a healthy headspace. All the while, my loving husband continued the search for other options that would prove viable for us and right around the time I had recovered from the trauma, he presented me with the option of surrogacy. It was the perfect chance for me to test out the fruits of my recovery. And it worked out better than I couldve hoped for. I now have a beautiful baby boy and honestly, I am glad i have someone like my husband. Without him I wouldve never imagined to be this happy. I hope you guys find your happiness as well. Cheers!

  1. Sloth557 months ago

    It is always nice to hear success stories. They really give hope to people like me. You are a strong woman. Not losing hope through hard times is what matters. I hope that I also get to tell my story one day. It will be very kind of you if you share the clinic's details. You seem to be very happy with their work. I am looking for some nice suggestions.

  2. Lilly Bench7 months ago

    At the beginning of your post, I was feeling really sorry for you. But until the end, I was so happy to know about your success. But indeed it is not the ending, but it is beginning of a new life. You have been blessed with the best. Your partner is really an amazing one and now you have more amazing and cute baby. It is a great blessing to you. Surrogacy has given another couple the happiness of their life. Glad to know about the increasing success rate of surrogacy. Wish you luck for future. May your baby have a long, blessed and healthy life.

  3. DiannaViktor7 months ago

    Hi Christane! WOWW! Your story is so inspiring! Well, I am also on exactly same route as you. But, I really pray that my IVF would work for me. But, still I've considered surrogacy as my last option. So, yeah! I am already worried so much. I've also been a TTC for a very long time. That's why after someone's referal..I've booked an IVF procedure later this year at Ukraine. Anyway! I am really impressed to listen to your story. Wish me luck! I really look forward to get what I wanted for so long! xx

  4. Sofia19947 months ago

    I have the same problem too dear.
    Getting pregnant always had complications for me.
    Every time i conceived i had miscarriages at the end.
    So i gave up on getting pregnant again.
    Now i am married for the second time and i am going to surrogacy option to have a baby.
    I persuaded my husband for surrogacy and he is ready to go for it to have a baby.
    I think you should also go for this option as miscarriages lead us to no other option.
    I contacted a number of clinics regardig surrogacy and they helped us in a number of ways.
    Research over the web for different clinics for now and make up your mind for surrogacy.
    If some one has some experience in surrogacy then kindly let us know so that we can learn from your experience.
    Feedback appreciated in advance.

  5. jens_love7 months ago

    dear Christiane, you sound so calm and composed at the moment.I am getting much confidence from you.Because i have had the similar kind of situation.I was considered infertile in a ripe age of 40.Now I am myself opting surrogacy.My better half has been supporting throughout as well.And your story has given me more confidence towards my journey.I hope that this brings out the best colors of life for both of us.

  6. rebecca127 months ago

    Hey, I feel so good by hearing all these success stories. It really delights me. I also want to share my story with you. Within 2 years of my marriage, I was declared infertile. It really was devastating. I felt horrible. But then my DH supported me the most. Took care of me and always presented me with ideas we could go for. We decided to think about surrogacy. My sister suggested me this clinic Biotexcom in Ukraine. I was satisfied until I visited them. The doctors there are so experienced. Managed to answer all my queries so well that I was fully convinced. They even provide with the donor egg bank and have the healthiest surrogates! And are super affordable. It literally was the best decision of my life. Now my boy is 2 years old. I wish you all lovely ladies happiness and prosperity!

  7. lenda_honey7 months ago

    haha I wish I was half as composed as you were.the moment my life starts to wiggle a bit.I start loosing it and crying and what not haha.If you can spare some advice for me that would be great.I have been dealing with infertility for about a year and a half.In the beginning, I was not completely infertile.In fact I was carrying my first baby and was 14 weeks pregnant.I decided to take my baby out for a walk because I had been at home for a week or so.I got in an accident in which I lost my baby and the ability to ever conceive one.The accident still haunts me and I could never forgive the man for what he did.I thought that I was completely barren in the beginning because that's what the doctor said.Well to be exact he said we had to remove your ovaries and fallopian tubes.So I was looking for other methods such as surrogacy and adoption. Recently a member told me that I can still have IVF.The comment just blew hope back in me.I can tell I am not a strong candidate for it but is it possible.I really am willing to give it a try and see where it goes.Also any clinic suggestions would also be great since most of the procedures are not even possible in my country.THank you in advance and much love.

  8. lenda_honey7 months ago

    "I am sorry for what have you been through. It’s a dream of every woman to have a wonderful family; most of the woman doesn't get much chance in their lives. I have seen many women having babies after being diagnosed with PCOS but unfortunately, you were out of luck. I am glad that your husband is a loving and caring person. In my opinion, surrogacy was a right option to have a baby. Take care of yourself and your health. It really helps you in conceiving.

    "

  9. Sofia19947 months ago

    For now i have convinced mt husband to go for surrogacy and he is ready too.
    But i am worried about somethings also.
    But that doesn’t matter as we don’t have any other option left for us.
    Now they are looking for a good woman for our baby who can carry our baby in her womb for 9 months.
    They will find a good female with all clear tests so that we don’t have to face any issue later.
    I contacted a clinic for surrogacy method and they responded very well to my questions.
    BioTexCom is the best of all clinic for surrogacy.
    You should also visit BioTexCom to clear your mind things.
    I suggest you to go for this clinic and atleast you should contact them and share your problem with them so that they can propose a better solution for you.
    As they suggested surrogacy option for us.
    I am going for the surrogacy option as their is no other way to have a baby of my own.
    I consulted a clinic regarding surrogacy they provided me a positive feedback.
    There are very good clinics regarding surrogacy as i’m sharing my experience with all of you.
    Positive feedback will be appreciated.

  10. Hannah.David7 months ago

    Thank you for sharing such a positive story. Even I strongly support the surrogacy as it allows so many couples to become parents and experience the whole situation. Visiting a good clinic is really important and I realised the importance of it when I myself visited an amazing clinic. They were so caring and nice towards. It was honestly wonderful seeing how they cared more about me then I cared about myself. The surrogate mothers over there were chosen after a medical test which meant that the process will be successful.They would call them for regular checkups and ensure their health and the babies health were both perfect. The best part was the regular updates they would give to the clients as well to ensure they were a part of it. Really also liked the patient-practitioner relationship which was excellent to be very honest.

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