This post is essentially about my experience with surrogacy. If this interests you, or if youre looking for resources to research it yourself, please go through it. I was diagnosed with PCOS in my teenage years and so it wasnt shocking to me when I failed to have kids with my husband years later. We were prepared for failure but not to the level that was in store for us. I initially went into hormone therapy and that was a complete failure. I was disappointed but not disheartened. After failing with my consequetive IVF attempts, however, I was devastated. My husband was there for me, but unfortuantely that wasnt enough for me to recover mentally. I had to go into therapy and that slowly but surely got me back into a healthy headspace. All the while, my loving husband continued the search for other options that would prove viable for us and right around the time I had recovered from the trauma, he presented me with the option of surrogacy. It was the perfect chance for me to test out the fruits of my recovery. And it worked out better than I couldve hoped for. I now have a beautiful baby boy and honestly, I am glad i have someone like my husband. Without him I wouldve never imagined to be this happy. I hope you guys find your happiness as well. Cheers!

  1. TinaK1 year ago

    This is the reason why I just love these forums where women share their experiences and hopeless and stressed women get some inspiration and motivation. First of all, I will say you are the luckiest women who have the best husband who helps you supports you in every phase of your life. It is really sad to see what you have gone through but the good thing is you faced all this with the positive mind and now you got the fruits of your patience. I have also seen many couples out there who never looked for other options and it's really frustrated to see them living their whole life without children. Much appreciation for a husband who supports you and kept looking for other options like surrogacy. When I heard these kinds of stories I consider surrogacy as the best achievement of Science. Surrogacy is the best option for infertile mothers. I will suggest other women who are facing these issues to go for surrogacy. I would love to your pics of your infant. Cheers

  2. Alana901 year ago

    Hey! How are you doing?
    Glad to see you on the road to recovery from the obstacle. You set a motivation for others.
    I am really happy to see how much support your husband is.
    I'm sure you would value him equally.
    That’s what balance relationship requires.
    I actually experienced something comparable.
    I've been TTC for many years.
    And I am also considering alternative options.
    I’ve decided on surrogacy.
    I am done with all early check-ups
    I have faith that I would have a story to share soon as well.
    In fact, these kinds of supports make me happy.
    Thank you for sharing your story.

  3. TheOptimistic1 year ago

    Congratulations on getting all the benefits of the surrogacy. It must be the peak time for your happiness. The most important thing I that your life partner stood with you in all that you did. You are lucky to enjoy this strong bond. It is a real treat. The support of your better half is actually something that can change your life. I wish you both a lovely life even in the days to come.

  4. honey_bee1 year ago

    There are two kinds of surrogacy: conventional and gestational. As of now, AFC just encourages gestational surrogacy, which requires the Intended Mother (or an egg giver), the Intended Father (or a sperm contributor), and a gestational bearer. The gestational surrogate makes no hereditary commitment and gives just the womb to the creating child. In the event that the Intended Parents can't give reasonable eggs or sperm, a benefactor might be used.The achievement rate of gestational surrogacy fluctuates since in excess of two individuals are included. Achievement relies on different elements, including nature of eggs, sperm, and developing life, and soundness of the surrogate. This is the reason AFC requires our surrogate moms to experience a generous confirming procedure, a physical registration by their essential doctor, and a mental assessment.

    Surrogate moms must have the familial help of their own. In the event that they have a life partner, their mate must have the capacity to help them in all ways that are available. Companions must experience the same mental appraisal the surrogate moms do.It didn't matter one bit that the little one growing inside of me wasn't genetically mine; my happiness that day was for the couple whose family would soon be growing by one.

  5. TinaK1 year ago

    ?Hey am really pleased to know about your successful experience of surrogacy. There were so many misconceptions in my head about surrogacy and you just cleared them. You have got the best husband ever and your child is going to be amazing too. I have no words to thank Almighty for this blessing. These forums are really amazing for clearing misunderstandings of others.

  6. alexasmith1 year ago

    You have such an inspiring story. This breaks my heart. It must be so hard for you. I have been in your shoes. I can totally understand how you must have felt. It is so nice of you to share your story over here. Your story will surely give hope to a lot of people. There are many like you. I had two miscarriages after marriage. I had lost all hope to become a mother. Then my husband and I started looking for alternatives. We found surrogacy. We were reluctant in the beginning. Nevertheless, we took our chances. Now we are blessed with a beautiful baby boy. I hope everyone gets blessed with children. Cheers!

  7. chris joseph1 year ago

    Hello!!! Surrogacy indeed a very helping service for all the couples suffering from the issues of infertility. It is a great blessing for the disappointed people. Many people are getting solutions for their parental satisfaction. There is a big role of surrogate mothers well. but hats off to the doctors and researchers who made possible surrogacy. Thanx a lot to the clinics offering with service.

  8. Jane Drake1 year ago

    You are lucky to have a husband like him. Most men dont accept the fact. They easily leave the woman.Since they can get married again. You are lucky though in this matter. I was lucky too. I was diagnosed with infertility. Thank god my husband didn't leave me. He was supportive. He looked into options too. We decided to go for IVF. I am glad it worked for me too. I am also happy you got your happiness. I wish the same for every woman out there. May odds get in our favor.

  9. diana_mom1 year ago

    Surrogacy is an awesome alternative for everyone who can't get pregnant. I, myself, had my child through surrogacy. May God bless the specialists at the center that helped me have an infant. My boy is exceptionally strong and healthy. After passing through such hard times, I was at last ready to become a mother. Extremely grateful for my DH for always being there for me. we finally got fruit. I will also suggest the aspirants go surrogacy.

  10. Petja1 year ago

    I have been trying to conceive from last 10 years now.Until now i don't had any luck with it.
    I had several attempts of IVF and IUI.But i failed at them too.I don't know whats the main cause for these.
    I contacted a number of clinics regarding my infertility issue.But the doctors can't also find the main cause for my infertility.
    The doctors are also not sure that whats the main cause for infertility.They also can't tell that should i'll have a baby naturally or not.
    So i am getting old now and i guess keep on waiting is not a good idea.I got suggestions from my friends to go for surrogacy.They say that i can have a baby via surrogacy.
    I don't know much about surrogacy but i searched about it over the web and found that many people are going for it to have a baby.
    But as i live in Bulgaria.Here surrogacy is totally ban.I don't know what to do.
    From forums i came to hear about that Ukraine has many good clinics regarding surrogacy.
    I think i should move to Ukraine for surrogacy now.
    If someone has experience about surrogacy please guide me.

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