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Surrogacy

Now at the age of 43 i am married again to someone else and we want a baby of our own.
I know at this age it is quite difficult to have a baby off my own womb.
Thinking of previous complications regarding pregnancy i would not try to be pregnant again.
From my last marriage i had many complications regarding pregnancy.
I don't have any other options left so far so surrogacy is the only solution to my problems i guess.
My husband agreed for surrogacy so i started looking for clinics with good surrogacy records.
I founded many clinics regarding surrogacy and i picked up the few clinics too for further discussion with them.
I contacted many clinics and told them every aspect of our complications.
From their satisfied answers i guess some clinics are the best solution for having a baby.
So i suggest that you people should also do your own research regarding surrogacy and should contact different clinics for further details.
Everytime miscarriage happened to me.
But i'm worried about many other aspects like my behaviour towards the baby after knowing everything.
Like when the baby grows up what i should tell him/her.
So i persuaded my husband to go for surrogacy to have our own children.
Someone raising a child via surrogacy should share their experience.

  1. emily2945 months ago

    Hey dear, I saw your post. You are going in the right way my dear. You should definitely go for surrogacy. I also have read and watch many successful surrogacy stories. Many infertile couples are considering surrogacy as a blessing for their happiness. You people can also use your own biological substance. In this way, the surrogate's biological impact will not affect the baby.
    I myself is also considering the surrogacy. Because I also can't conceive naturally. The reason is I am a heart patient. Thus, doctor asked me not to try again to get pregnant. Otherwise, your life will be at risk. Thus, my close family and friends suggests me of surrogacy. I just hope that it goes well for both of us. Best wishes.

  2. Petja5 months ago

    I am really sorry for your loss i can understand your feelings. Just like you i am also trying to conceive for past ten years. I had tried all the possible options but none of them was helpful. My doctors have not yet told me about the actual problem. Although one of them advised me to go for surrogacy.I have came to know from many forums about surrogacy. They say that many infertile women going for surrogacy. I am already above 40. Although surrogacy is illegal here but it is legal in Europe and USA. I contacted the clinics there and they are pretty sure about success.I think that i should try my luck with this method From various forums i came to hear about that Ukraine has many good clinics regarding surrogacy. Surrogacy is a hope for me. I will advise you to go for surrogacy. If any body had a experience of surrogacy please guide me.

  3. melissastan5 months ago

    Hi. How are you doing? You are right. It gets harder to conceive and carry a baby at this age. Even if you do, it increases the risks of the pregnancy. You and your husband made a wise decision by going for surrogacy. I might be able to help you here as I have gone through with this whole process myself before. I had my son through gestational surrogacy about a year ago. I went to Ukraine for it. The clinic I chose was a very good one. They handled my matters very professionally and did not give me a chance to complain. I found this place after a lot of research. You should look into it. It is very affordable. I chose this place because I live in the States and surrogacy here is extremely expensive. I come from a middle-class family and I cannot afford such expenses. Good luck to you and your husband.

  4. rebecca125 months ago

    I deeply empathize with you, dear. I know you've been through a lot in your life. No pain is greater than the pain of losing your unborn baby. I've been in the same condition as you. You're very right. You shouldn't TTC keeping in mind your past experiences. Your body needs rest now. The quality of your eggs is decreasing day by day so you shouldn't waste any further time. I believe that surrogacy is the perfect solution for you. I agree with you that a person should research on their own to satisfy himself. So that you don't blame someone else for a decision you made. I hope you become a mother very soon. Don't worry about the after-effects of surrogacy. There aren't any. The baby is made up your genes, you'll love him more than anything. All the best!

  5. TinaK5 months ago

    Hi Sofia, hope you are in good health. It's sad to know what you had faced in your life but the good thing is you are now on the right path. Surrogacy is going to be perfect for you. Surrogacy is not less than a blessing of science. It's like a message of God that the world must go on, hope is always there. I have seen many couples out there who get best results from this treatment.
    Well whenever we start something new in our life, these worries tensions are natural but believe me this is going to best for you. Well regarding your complications related clinics, I would suggest you that you should visit eastern Europe there are many quality clinics who are doing great in this field. They are providing facilities at affordable prices. Well the baby born will be through your genes, so he/she will be your own so just be positive. Things are going to be perfect for you. Good luck on your journey. Cheers.

  6. Jane Drake5 months ago

    Well, I agree surrogacy solves our problems. At the same time, you think that your behavior will not be just with the baby. This is not the case. You will love the baby even more. Trust me on this.Tell him or her the truth when he is mature. It will not be good if they get the news from someone else.

  7. BellaJones5 months ago

    Hey there Sofia. I Understand all your concerns. It's not an easy decision. don't worry about it. Surrogacy is a very secure process. I know because I have had it. I have two lovely boys due to it. I wish you good luck. Take care.

  8. Alana905 months ago

    Hey! Great thought. I appreciate what you think.
    There are few who consider all this. Regardless of those who often consider this to be a much false way to have a baby.
    Though I am not the one who is raising baby through surrogacy I might be the one who is considering surrogacy to have a baby.
    That's great that your husband agrees on opting surrogacy. This must be a tough decision for you two.
    But I believe that this is much better than having a whole life with a feeling of being incomplete.
    women's world is supposed to be complete with a child. children paint our colourless life.
    I just love kids, and I can't imagine my life without kids.
    Love to you.XX

  9. diana_mom5 months ago

    Dear, I just checked your post. You are going smooth. I will say that you should go for surrogacy. I have seen many successful surrogacy stories on this forum. Many infertile couples have taken benefit of it. You can also take advantage of it without any hesitation. The surrogated child will belong to you genetically in this treatment. I'm also considering to have surrogacy treatment. As I'm unable to conceive naturally. The reason behind my failed TTC was some genetic disease. So my doctor stopped me from carrying a pregnancy. Otherwise, results would be alarming. Hence, my DH suggested me to go for surrogacy. I just hope that it will work this time. We shall be able to fulfill our desire. All the best.

  10. diana_mom5 months ago

    Hey dear, so sorry to hear learn about your past experiences. At the same time, it filled my great with deep joy that you have taken a wise decision. It's always best to approach that if you take a good step. Surrogacy is a great blessing of science. Also, infertile couples can easily have children through it. The clinic that you have mentioned is really a decent center. I have heard very positive reviews about this center. There is a youtube channel of it too. You can even look for this center from there. There are many examples of coping with infertility there. You will feel relax on seeing them. They will guide you the best until you get your desire. I'm sure that you shall be able to have your own children from surrogacy. I wish you the best of luck. Baby dust at your doorsteps!

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