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Trying to conceive.

Hey everyone. Hope so everyone is doing good. My friend is trying to conceive from past 2 years. But things are not working for her. She is very sad about it. She completely blames herself for not conceiving. Has anyone going through same. Or have the same experience. Please share your experience. Also if there is any possible solution.

  1. Emma1243 months ago

    Sorry to hear about your friend. Have she did a proper check up? What is wrong with her? Is she infertile? Well, whatever the reason is, blaming herself is not right. We can't against against fate. If she is infertile, she has to look for other options like IVF and surrogacy. I am also an infertile. I chose surrogacy over IVF. As IVF success rate is very low. Further more, the charges of IVF is really high. Very few can afford it. While surrogacy is cheap. There are many clinics in Ukraine offering surrogacy in cheaper price. Also Ukraine clinics have the latest technology. Ask your friend to visit Ukraine.

  2. Sofia19943 months ago

    Sorry to hear. I am TTC from past 13 years but no luck. I am also 43, got married when I was 27.
    I guess surrogacy is the only solution to my problem.
    A friend has now suggested me to search for some international clinics that do not reside in our country.
    You should also visit a surrogacy related clinic.
    I have recently found one situated in Ukraine.
    They have quite a costless package with all the facilities.
    I have had many treatments from many experts but they never turn out to work out for me the way I hope them to.
    I have tried IUI and IVF but they failed for me many many times.
    People have now told me about surrogacy and I am really thinking about going for it.
    I just need some guidelines as surrogacy is illegal in the state where I live and I am very scared.
    I just need to complete my life and my family before it is too late for me even to try.
    I think you should give it a try too because in my view it is quite a suitable procedure for women of our age
    I have pregnancy issue and complications from the past 10 years and I still am childless as I have always been.
    There must be some way to carry out everything legally, right?
    It is very difficult at times to handle the loneliness and the depression but there are always friends and family to make me feel better.
    One thing that I am very thankful for is that I never lose hope.

  3. Robin James3 months ago

    Hey Anna. I hope you and your friend are well. TTC can be a really complicated process. I'm really sorry to hear about her struggles. Fact is, it could easily be any tiny thing she might be overlooking. It's common to struggle with TTC. I would suggest that she sees a doctor right away. I, myself, struggled for seven years. I got pregnant multiple times. However, all of those times ended with miscarriages. Sadly, in my case, I was told that I simply couldn't carry. It broke my heart. The only relief I found was from visiting the doctor who cleared my situation up and told me to go for alternative conception methods. I'd suggest your friend go see a doctor, too. Good luck to her!

  4. Jenelia Smith3 months ago

    Hi. I hope you are doing good. I am really sorry to know about your friend. I know she must be going through a hard phase of her life. You need to support her. Stand her by her side. Tell her it is not only her facing this curse. There are many females going through this trouble. Tell her to stay persistent. Keep a faith in God. I hope the best for her. Why go far? I am also one of the victims. I can relate to her pain. I have gone for surrogacy in Ukraine. Tell her to visit the clinics over there. The doctors can suggest her the best solution. Good luck to her. My prayers are with her. :))

  5. scarlett99993 months ago

    hello dear. how are you doing? how is your friend now? please tell her not to be sad. I can feel her pain. my sister has osteoporosis. she is under surrogacy. later before she skipped eating. didn't use to talk at all. so I know what she is going through. stay strong. she can do it. tell her I'm praying for her. make the right choice. stay determined. sending baby dust to her. take care. bye.

  6. LonieKot3 months ago

    Sorry to hear about your condition. I was not able to conceive even due to hysterectomy cancer. But then we went to Ukraine for our infertility treatment. Ukraine is very popular for its clinics regarding infertility. I have been there in Ukraine myself. There are a number of clinics in Ukraine for infertility solutions.
    I was infertile due to hysterectomy cancer. I was cancer free after sometime but it resulted in my total infertility. My husband decided that we will go for surrogacy to have a child. here in Japan surrogacy is prohibited. So we moved to Ukraine for surrogacy. There we found a very good clinic which is best for its surrogacy. We started our surrogacy journey at that clinic. Clinic founded a good surrogate for us. Then we went through the whole process and everything was just perfect. Now our surrogate is pregnant with our twin daughters. We are so happy that we will finally have our baby with us.
    We will be flying to Ukraine once the clinic let us know the delivery date of our surrogate.

  7. Hannah.David3 months ago

    Hey I am doing well I hope so are you. Well, honestly speaking all the women who have to go through the journey of infertility do at some point blame themselves. It is a very natural instinct as almost nothing is working out and you are really frustrated. I can completely understand how she feels as I have been in this position myself as well. In such situations you need to have supportive and positive people around you otherwise things could get much worst. What problem have the doctors diagnosed her with? This information can really help in deciding which process she should really opt for. Couples usually start off with medication namely Clomid it ranges from 3 to 6-month cycles. If medication doesn’t work out then she can go for IUI treatment which is one of the more basic initial treatments. A lot of people have to go through 3 to 4 cycles in order to make it work while for some it works out instantly. The next option is that of IVF she could consider that as well it is highly successful. Lastly, surrogacy is another option which for many is the last resort. I hope my post was helpful and does solve her problem. Best of luck to her. Sending baby dust her way.

  8. BellaJones3 months ago

    Hey there Anna. How are you doing? I hope its all great. I am really sorry to hear about your friend. I know it must be hard for her. I know because I have been through it too. I was unable to conceive too However I suggested surrogacy went for it best choice ever. Two years very long does she visit a doctor. If yes what did they say? I hope things get better. I wish her good luck. Take care.

  9. melissastan3 months ago

    Hi. I'm doing well. Thank you for asking. I really feel bad about your friend. She doesn't deserve this. Infertility is a curse. To be honest, no one deserves this. But it is so common. So it is important for people to accept their realities. Only then, one will be able to do something about it. Has your friend ever considered getting fertility treatments done? There are so many clinics that have opened up for this purpose. I know what you must be thinking now, these clinics are so expensive, right? But there's one in Ukraine that is both really good and affordable. Your friend should consider this for herself. I'm sure she will find the help she is looking for.

  10. serra3 months ago

    Sorry to hear about your friend. She should go for a complete checkup to her gynaecologist. Maybe she is facing infertility. I can say that because I have been through this all once. I miscarried and then I am facing it for many years. I wanted to be a mother but that was not in fate. So I decided to go for surrogacy. I have wasted many years but in the end, I became a mother. I have a baby now, I went to a clinic in Europe. I came to know that I cannot be a mother again. So I was left with an option of IVF and surrogacy. I chose surrogacy as it is a safe procedure. I am happy that I chose it. I hope this would help her. She will be a mom soon.

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